Okay, me and my ex broke up some time ago. We have both moved and the only communication we have is an occasional email about twice a month. We never fought, I understood why she dumped me and was not mad at her I do not have the loving feelings for her that I once did. She actually dumped me through email right after she started seeing a therapist (father died 5 months ago, low self esteem, depression). She never really expressed her emotions and she was always apologizing for things, even the littlest things. When she dumped me she kept apologizing saying that she thought we had really good potential, but the timing of us sucked because she needed to sort her own life out before she could be happy in a relationship. My question is that I consider her a friend, but what is the best way for me to show her I care and hope she is happy, while not being too caring like we were dating? I told her that if she ever needs someone to listen to her, talk to, or vent to I am here...
2006-11-18 09:14:37 · 3 answers · asked by Clrcut27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Keep doing what your doing and dont over analyse it.
2006-11-18 09:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just what you told hr that if she need a shoulder to care on your there for her. It sound you are a very sweet young man as well as your ex's knowing that she was not at a stable place in her life to be the right girl for you. I do wish both of you well. God Bless.
2006-11-18 17:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by JO`NAE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well then you're doing great. Just let her know you are her friend and are there whenever she needs you. Be available, but don't make her problems your own...you can't take away her pain, just give her someone to share it with. Don't let it weigh you down.
2006-11-18 17:17:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋