what if i get rejected? will he love that, what shall i do ?
2006-11-18 08:55:00 · 21 answers · asked by raj n 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes of course it's ok. Don't even think about 'What if's'.... if you don't go for it then you'll never know!
2006-11-18 08:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well apparently, guys like women to take the pressure off them for a change. think about it, they get rejected all the time [unless theyr really cute, but you know what i mean]. hell probably love that youre confident enough to make the first move. if you do get rejected, the chances are they'll let you down gently. they know how it feels! im not saying you should come over slutty, just act natural and be happy. your life will not end if you get rejected. remember that, its important. cliche time: be yourself. theyll find out your lies, and if they dont like the real you, it wasnt meant to be.
2006-11-18 09:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by sing_like_ur_alone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is! You can't always wait around for him to decide he's up for it. Most men love it when their women make a move on them. If your not sure how he will react, give him a few kisses first, if he's okay with that, run your hands over his body and then progress from there! Good Luck!
2006-11-18 08:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Jo_Diva 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its perfectly acceptable to make the first move, but its up to you wether you want to risk it or not.
Personally, I don't make the first move - I let the guy do that. But, I am rather shy and have low self confidence. I imagine the guy would be pleased that you obviously like him enough to go for it.
Good luck :)
2006-11-18 08:57:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely
2006-11-18 08:57:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it. a man loves to feel wanted. Make your move woman
2006-11-18 08:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by hharry_m_uk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok for a woman to make the first move. if you get reject your not the first
2006-11-18 09:54:22 · answer #7 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you do not get rejected and he sees it as flatering and is happy to have the pressure off of him. If you are not one for the direct approach, Flirt heavily and gauge him from there.
2006-11-18 08:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is worth chasing, he would be gentle and friendly even if he says no.
Only a really really hateful, insecure, spiteful person would gain anything from somebody elses pain and rejection.
Its more than ok. No promises yet though.
2006-11-18 08:59:42 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look! Some guys are as nervous as you. If you think he's ready and if you know your ready. Go for it! But dont schedule a time to do it. just when you think the time is right you will know so dont push it.
2006-11-18 09:00:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if you like this guy then make the first move. hemight even like you but is just to shy to ask. dont let fear slow you down. tuffin up and ask him out. you wont know if you dont try.
2006-11-18 09:01:15 · answer #11 · answered by angelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋