I feel so bad about myself but I'm not attracted to black men, I don't know why and I wish that I was because it makes me feel so racist. I tried going out with a couple but I just couldn't get into the date. Is there something wrong with me? Why am I only attracted to white men? Cuz I'm as open minded as the next chick and I'm friends with plenty of black people, is this a case with many people? Or is there something wrong with me?
2006-11-18 08:50:07 · 6 answers · asked by StarGirl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
There is nothing wrong with you. We can not help who we are attracted to - that just happens on it's own. If you found yourself attracted to a man of another race I am sure you would (as you already have) given it a try to see where a relationship might lead. You haven't had luck so far and maybe you never will - or maybe you will in the end. There is no way of knowing - just be open to love and it will find you.
xoxo!
Peace!
2006-11-18 08:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you have not met a black man who you want to date.
I do not think you are racist in any way. If and when the right guy comes along, no matter what his color, you will know it.
I wish everyone felt the way you do, that being open minded about people of color. I think discrimination should be one of the deadly sins.
2006-11-18 16:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I think there's something wrong with you - first of all are you dating black guys so you can be in with your friends? That's what it sounds like to me. I don't know what your cultural background is either - I mean if you're black then yeah why wouldn't you like guys of your culture. Being multicultural doesn't mean having to hop into bed with someone based on their skin colour. What are you interested in? Hang out with similar minded people - once you start connecting with people on that level - the rest shouldn't matter.
2006-11-18 17:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by jenjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think, personally, there is something wrong with you. It's just you, but the main thing is you have not come up any reason why you feel that way, assuming you are not a black woman.
2006-11-18 16:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by me_worry? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, it doesn't make you racist.
It's just like how I love how Asian people look.
It's just your preference.
This doesn't make you racist.
Even if people say you are.
Besides if you aren't attracted to the person at all, no matter what race, you probably won't ever be attracted to them.
2006-11-18 16:54:58 · answer #5 · answered by Mellorine~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal. Nothing wrong with you.
2006-11-18 16:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋