i'm 15 years old and i'm scared of my parents reactions. i have a favorite teacher we always talk but im scared of telling her im bi! what can i do? only my best friend and 3 other people know
2006-11-18 08:42:36 · 13 answers · asked by boricua4756 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
you do not need to tell anyone yet. wait a few years. it if not their business anyway. it will only upset them
2006-11-18 08:45:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is way too early to tell them..you are still very young and forming as a human being. Wait a few years and you will know when the time is right...your parents might be more surprised that you are sexually active or even having sexual thoughts much less that you are bi. This is something that you need to keep to yourself and a few very trusted friends for the moment. What if you decided to eventually go into the military? That would mess up your chances from the get go. Think before you say anything to anyone else. Your sexuality should be your business alone.
2006-11-18 17:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How bout nothing? Is it really necessary that you tell your parents at 15 yo that your bi? I guess Im old or something, but when I was 15, my sexuality wasnt important. I was still worried about playing sports and having fun. Take your time, find out who you are, and if you have sex with anyone, be careful and safe.
2006-11-18 16:52:48 · answer #3 · answered by arielsalom33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude dont tell them they will make fun of you for a week. They will not take it seriosly dude parents are not stupid they are very smart...some of them. Then if you shou up with byfriends and girlfriends they will actualy belive you, then you are realy in trouble. First they will be super hurt because in our society beeing bi is still tabu, the word slut is still outhere making damage. man tere are so many resons for you not to tell them I know is like a fire in you burning screaming to come out but be cool keep it in. Be strong man, be smart, is all just a mind game you can win. Be self manipulating. You want your parrants to be happy dont tell them dont usead them. You want yourself to be happy scrue man and chicks but keep it for yourself and be discreet. it is actualy more intresting that way...more kinky..is like your lilte secret. Do what ever you want when ever you want bro is the only way to be happy.....But again dont tell your parrants...you cant do what ever you want yet...you dont have the money......a good advice stup thinking about this stuff and think about something constructive like how to make 10 mil $ that would give me indepenedce and power to do what ever I want?....
2006-11-18 17:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact a gay youth center in your local area... They can help you with coming out. I live in Chicago & when I was 17 I was fortunate to have a gay youth program to go to. Coming out when your a teen is very hard. Your very brave for wanting to do this... Contact PFLAG and they'll give you the recources you need to find a youth group. THEY KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD SAY TO YOUR PARENTS... Heres think link to find a local PFLAG in your area. http://www.pflag.org/Find_a_Chapter.find_chapters.0.html
Don't be scared to talk to them. They are there to help you & your family cope with such issues. Thanks for being honest at this young age... I know how it feels. Good luck
2006-11-18 16:57:53 · answer #5 · answered by Ida 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont worry. your still a kid. your parents wont hate you, its normal for a person to be bisexual, even if this helps theactress angelina jolie is bi and she lives a normal life.
just be yourself and your parents will be happy with who you are.
everything else will follow. remember that DOESNT make u a bad person.
2006-11-18 16:57:33 · answer #6 · answered by mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk with your teacher first. At least she can't disown you. See what she says about telling your parents.
2006-11-18 16:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by grumpyfiend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be scared man, Let them know, I am sure they will be "shocked" at the begining, and you should expect that, but let them know and if they are good parent, they will respect your lifestyle and be happy that you are happy. Same with your friends. Never be afraid of who you are, be proud and accept yourself, Good luck!
2006-11-18 16:45:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessary to tell them. Morever you are too young to label yourself bi.
2006-11-18 16:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude my advice is to wait...i came out last year when i was 15 and it wasn't very pretty....my parents kicked me out and all my ''friends'' rejected me.....I'm not trying to scare you for coming out or somthin because its your choice....all I'm saying is that if you are going to come out hope for the best but prepare for the worst......good luck
2006-11-18 16:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by allen=[\m/] 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋