I was at a party last night, my friends were drinking and a few of them ended up sleeping over. A few hours after we went to sleep I was woken up by one of my friends bent over my and rubbing my croch. I freeked out and shoved him off. Then I noticed that he was totaly naked with a hard on. I asked him what the heck he was doing and he said that he was so drunk that he didn't know. I have never drank or done any drugs so I don't know if this is true, or if he is lying to me so I don't say anything about it. My question is could his story be true and if so does geting drunk make you do things like this? Has anyone had something like this happen to them?
2006-11-18 08:32:47 · 25 answers · asked by Rob x 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Its hard to tell, really.
Im thinking he might be gay, and had no choice to lie bc of your reaction. Maybe you should just talk to him calmy, and ask him what it was all about...
If he rly is, be open minded and just tell him thats not how you are and you don't like him touching you.
Ive never had this happen...well, not by someone of the same sex anyway. In all honesty, you rarely get drunk enough to not know what you were doing, but it is possible.
2006-11-18 08:36:59 · answer #1 · answered by ml_fiore_2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay. Sit down and talk to him about it. So what he felt you up and you seen another mans hard on. You see that all the time in high school any other place there are alot of men. If he is gay so what do not shove him away cause he is. A true friend will be there to support him. He has crush on you or he would have went for one of the other dudes. Give in let him have it. Be his best friend. Drinking was a excuse. Love him in always.
2006-11-18 08:53:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't drink and never hang out with those who drink so I only have experience with folks who do drugs to get high.
but when you're drunk or stoned - U loosen up and things happen.
If you're not gay - then forgive him and don't hate him for it. he's just a human being with desires and faults.
for me - If the guy were cute - I'd love it and encourage him to do more. If the guy is clean, healthy, nice guy and friendly, and if he's young and handsome - I can't see why not!! I'd be thrilled if that happened to me & I'd play with his hard-on. I would kiss him hard on the mouth & get sweet on him. for sure.
But if he were ugly - then I'd politely move away from him and try to sober him up. either way - you should be complimented and flattered that he liked you.
I like this whole story you related. doesn't sound so terrible to me.
this guy was probably young, cute, drunk & silly. I would take advantage of his state and I'd even let him shag me all the way. -plus I'd give him a b-l-o-w-job he'd never forget.
don't be upset with him and remember none of us is so perfect or an angel.
but I love this whole story & wish I were there at this party. If this happened to me it would boost my ego sky-high and make me proud.that I could make a man that excited. It's natural. That is a wonderful feeling for a guy to know that.
2006-11-18 09:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by blackbird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy sounds like a closet homosexual. And his drunkeness could have either given him the courage to see if you were up for some "fun", or it was his excuse as to why he was molesting you in your sleep. Drinking to the point of getting drunk definitely releases your inhibitions, so you are not worried about doing anything, you just do it. The guy could have definitely been wasted but his state of arousal and what he did to you sounds like he does have some gay tendencies that he has never made known.
2006-11-18 08:37:47 · answer #4 · answered by redcherri817 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No i believe he is gay. He is obviously hiding it. He was drunk and alcohol, when consumed in large amounts, can make you reveal a lot of things that you usually wouldn't want anybody to know. Just don't be overly harsh towards him. It would be best for you two to talk this out or your friendship (if it still exists) will no longer be a good one. Tell him how you feel about what he did and go from there. Good Luck!!!!!!!!!11
2006-11-18 08:50:13 · answer #5 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he lost his inhibition while drunk and you where giving him the eye all night and flirting with him ,it takes 2 to tango and you must have been leading him on to make him think that you where ready to get naked also ,I think you 2 would make a nice couple and live a happy gay life, sounds like your just looking for approval to do it .
2006-11-18 08:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by Terry S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** i've never heard of that happening...not to say it's not possible tho. maybe he thought u were a chick. althouuuuuuuuuugh, that would coincide w/ him DREAMING not being drunk. give him the benefit of the doubt and don't go telling everyone...u made it clear that YOU'RE not that way...and then make it a point not to be alone w/ him again.
2006-11-18 08:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by meme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is as GAY as a spring day! He is so fruity he can cure scurvy... I guess what I am trying to say is NO it is not a normal drunkard thing to do to a guy.. A girl yes, but a dude/dude.. He is of the hook gay!!
2006-11-18 08:36:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
he is so gay its not funny and that is weird he was molesting you in your sleep. that used to happen to me with my last husband. he would molest me as i sleep really deep and then sometimes i would wake with his hard-on. creepy feeling. i am a girl but the feeling is probably about the same....violated!!!!! sorry this happened and try to file it back in your mind with other things that are creepy......have a good nite and never fall asleep around the pervert again.
2006-11-18 08:36:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
1. it could be bc he was drunk...drinking makes a person do wied things
2. he could be gay...umm why was he naked?
3. the hard on is natural everyone gets hard
2006-11-18 08:59:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋