Why does it seem that there are a lot more "bottoms" than there are "tops"?

Answer 1

Because having your prostrate 'massaged' is thrilling. My boyfriend is abottom and he orgasms without toughing himself, he does so at the exact moment that I do, and I can FEEL him throbbing inside against my 'head' while Im orgasming.

Answer 2

Most Same Gender Loving males are still under the impression that they have to portray a submissive role due to their sexuality. Historically, females have been (forced to have been) submissive while males have been in the dominant role...get ready for the twist with this.

Males who like males oftentimes feel (whether at an early age or later) that they are to portray themselves in this submissive female role. There along with having feminine traits, the male attempts to (as much as possible) fulfill this female role. Henceforth, they are the passive (or bottoms).

My thoughts on male-male sex is that we both have our "swinging richards" so we both should use them on each other. If we are only "tops" then we should just be heterosexual...tops can get the same sexual treatment (and then some) from females versus banging a "bottom's" booty...just a thought.

Answer 3

I, for one, have noticed no such disparity. Most guys I've been involved with were quite comfortable with either role as the mood took us both, as am I. The idea that one must a "top" or a "bottom", with no change in role ever, strikes me as overly limiting, like saying one must be either "straight" or "gay" with bi not an option. Human sexuality is way too complex and varied to be pigeonholed into that kind of black/white over generalization.

Answer 4

No one else gave a direct answer to your query. but I WILL.

You are 1000% right. There is a lopsided ratio of about 10 bottoms to 1 top. it's the real truth. I've seen this all my life.

Most guys who like to f-u-c-k- someone else are usually straight guys. they know their job is to shag a woman. there is no confusion or doubt about that. when straight guys and broads come together - both of them know who will stick what into whom. No confusion there.

problem is that not enough guys out there have realized how wonderful it feel to be inside another man's a-s-s and to come inside him. if they only knew - but they don't realize.it.

Another reason is that many guys are lazy and don't want to pump. They want to sit back and take it while the stud (top) does the driving . And it's easier to be a passive bottom than to be an active top - because - just like in the hetero world - the topguy has to PROVE himself & take responsibility to make the woman come & satisfy her. same with the gay topguy - he is in charge and must satisfy the bottom.

and most guys who want to penetrate are found more in the straight world. they prefer the vagina to the rectum of a man. And so those guys who like to get shagged GRAVITATE to the gay world. they have no choice.

Topguys could shag either women or passive men. BUt bottom guys have no option but to try to seduce some guy to give it to them. their choices are more limited.

So now are we clear about this matter. ???????????????

I sure hope so.

Answer 5

I didn't know there were. And I was just about to post the opposite question, or at least why are so many gay men determined to announce they are 'tops', when not many 'bottoms' seem to mention it?
Weird, huh?

Answer 6

I have more of a top.

Answer 7

i thought the opposite, because people would wear pants twice a week and shirts once in two weeks

Answer 8

Mostly guys seem to be vers to me.

Answer 9

Dunno. Thems the breaks.