They don't believe in dating. And when we talked about flirting, (We were at school) they said I was a big flirt and that I should stop flirting w/ this guy that i like (he likes me, too) cuz it's not health. I was really angry that they said that, I mean it's my life. I can choose what I do and what I don't. What should I do?
2006-11-18 07:57:54 · 10 answers · asked by Erriyberry 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think they aren't really your friends. A friend is a person who helps you when you need help, supports you when you need support and is there when you need him. You should try finding some better people to be friends with. You can flirt with the guy you like, as you said , it's your life...good luck
2006-11-18 08:08:56 · answer #1 · answered by ady 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree that it is your choice what you do in terms of dating and flirting, especially if that is natural and you are being yourself. Why don't your friends believe in dating? Maybe you should just talk to them to find out why they don't believe in dating or flirting and why they are not supporting you at this time. It could be that they are afraid of losing you to a guy and want to protect you from the risk of getting hurt. If it is not that, then perhaps they are jealous. Either way you will have to decide what is more important to you, what your friends think or what you want. Good luck with everything!
2006-11-18 16:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by kkolnows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off stop taking it as an insult. Secondly, do what you want and let their opinion stay just that, an opinion and not the put down you are imagining it to be. They may BE insulting you, but ignore it, flirt with the boy if he is flirting back. They may very well be jealous.
Good luck.
Peace.
2006-11-18 16:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by -Tequila17 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its good to flirt with guys being a flirt is nothing bad it just depends on how u flirt u can b a flirt in a bad way and in a good way u can be a flirt in a nasty way or in a respectable way its just how u put ur self out there u just keep doin what u do its not bad to flirt
2006-11-18 16:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by buttercup777 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes close friends are less careful stepping in their friend's off-limit zone. Try not to be so uptight about it, but of course you will have to let your friends know how you feel. Once they apologize, just get over it and enjoy the affair. Good luck.
2006-11-18 16:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by seek_fulfill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends have a right to their opinions. Ignore them. They are pinheads. Flirting is a natural part of growing up. You are learning how to attract the opposite sex.
2006-11-18 16:02:02 · answer #6 · answered by ssbn598 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you're friends with immature, jealous wannabes. I'd say look into finding new friends. These present losers will only drag you down.
2006-11-18 16:01:36 · answer #7 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its problem dont matter to them about flirtin with boys.What girls like to do? When he are good looking to he have crush on you dont even know.When flirtin with boy are ok dont let nothing stop you want you want to do.But you got to know when do it.When not to do it.Cause going be some people that not going like you flirtin with boys.
2006-11-18 16:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your friends sound kind of close minded and controlling. ask yourself why you chose these people to be your friends if you values are so different.
2006-11-18 16:02:06 · answer #9 · answered by vancityblunt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should get some new friends.....and don't stop doing what you know is fine....dont let your friends persuad you away from what you feel
2006-11-18 16:01:34 · answer #10 · answered by Corey C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋