about 3 months ago my bf and i had sex and i wasn't on the pill and he forgot to put on a condom which was in his back pocket i have taken 3 pt's and they came back with a yes i would like to get a blood test but i don't know how to tell my mom. she doesn't like the guy to begin with and she can be really mean. i eat all the time now i throw at least 3 times every morning i told my bf that i thought i was pregnant when i skiped for the first time and he broke up with me like 3 weeks later i'm having a really hard time with this and i'm really scared!!! so the more help the better!!
2006-11-18 07:35:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You really need to tell your mom and get to a doctor. If she doesn't like the boyfriend at all, she'll probably think he raped you! He is a real scum bag. Make sure he pays child support for the next 18 years - serve him right. I'm sorry you have to go through this alone, but you will have a beautiful baby who will love you unconditionally. Wish I knew your age! If you really can't handle raising a baby, there are many couples who would raise it with so much love. Good luck to you and your baby.
2006-11-18 07:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. G. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a hard thing that people go through but it happens. Obviously he wasn't ready to be dad, but you need to handle the situation. You had the sex and need to take responsibility and remember your caring for a baby. You need to get on pre-natal vitamins if you haven't already and you need to tell your mother as soon as possible. You need to tell her that way you two can make an appointment with an ob so they can do a checkup on you. You just need to flat out tell your mom, she'll probably be really mad at first, but she'll come around and help you, remember she's your mom so she's only looking into what's best for you. Also, you need to tell her the the first time you took a pregnancy test so she can know roughly how far along you are so you can make an appointment. Take the best care of yourself to care for your baby.
2006-11-18 15:43:05 · answer #2 · answered by shontai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are pregnant. I think it is pretty hard to consistently get a false positive on a home test. You need to go see an OB and get a pregnancy test (planned parenthood offers too). And you need to tell someone you trust so you have a support system.
Sounds like your mom has good reason not to like this guy by the way if he broke up with you, not what you want to hear I know, but she may be onto something.
the best way to tell her is to just tell her, it will be hard, but it will be harder not to. (unless you feel there is a chance of abuse) Either way you need an adult involved and help. If you are actually pregnant you need to be getting proper medical care for you and the baby and start looking at your choices for the major change that will be happening in your life.
2006-11-18 15:42:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It definitely sounds like you are pregnant. You will eventually need to tell your mom and the sooner the better. She may be upset and/or disappointed, but you will most assuredly need her support. (Emotionally and probably financially). A great site to check out is http://www.standupgirl.com/. If your mom and ex-boyfriend are not supportive, this site is really helpful in a time of pregnancy crisis. I wish you the best and hope you don’t end up going though this alone.
2006-11-18 15:55:04 · answer #4 · answered by my2cents4ya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your pregnant pregnancy tests are 99.9% effective and maybe ur ex-bf will change his mind maybe he won't assuming he won't what will you do?? can you make this decision on your own?? do you want to keep it?? assuming this was 3 months ago i think your options for a easy abortion are over i think after months it gets complicated i think you need to talk to your mom she knows you and knows how much help she will be. i don't even know how old you are so its hard for me to say n e thing further
2006-11-18 15:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your mom and start getting yourself some prenatal care. It's extremely important. If you think it'll make telling your mom easier, have a friend there with you.
2006-11-18 15:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry honey but it sounds like ur deff pregnant...you shouldnr be scared now cause i bet you werent scared while you were making this baby...you have to deal with the consequences now...but just talk tou your parents or doctors to make sure this pregnancy goes smoothly..good luckk
2006-11-18 16:09:36 · answer #7 · answered by lola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to tell u this ..but u have all the simptons of a pregnant girl...the best thing to do right now is tell ur mom..shes the only that can help u
2006-11-18 15:44:03 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Cruz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u are pregnant, deal with it!
2006-11-18 15:37:34 · answer #9 · answered by Serry's mum 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋