This has been a "Hobby" of mine for many years off and on but, a friend of mine told me I was wrong to confuse guys and make them unsure if their gay. I have about a 70% sucess rate i'm guessing. But they all seem to like it and it makes me feel good to make them feel good. So if everybody feels goo, what's the harm?
2006-11-18 06:18:13 · 17 answers · asked by Fireman T 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What two consenting adults do in the private is their own business. I don't think it's necessarily wrong to "confuse" people at all; what you're doing is giving them direct evidence that "gay" and "straight" are not always so cut and dry. Although I can see how some might find it very unsettling, it doesn't sound to me like they're being made to do anything they don't really want in the first place. Carry on!
2006-11-18 07:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
One thing I have learned over the years, is that a person make anything right in their mind. You already think that it is right, so what difference does it make what anyone else thinks? Based on the answers you get, will it make you stop. I highly doubt it!
Personally, I have been approached by lesbians a few times in my life. To say that I didn't like it is putting it very mildly; each time they knew I was married. There has never been any confusion in my mind. My point is, if you can really seduce a straight man, his "straightness" is questionable.
2006-11-18 06:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by candace b 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe that a "straight" man can be seduced. if he was 100% straight, he wouldn't sleep with a guy. He was probably attracted to guy in some way long before he met you. Also remember that sexuality is a social construct anyway. If there were no taboos against homosexuality and bisexuality I believe that a significan't amount of people wouldn't fall neatly into either the "gay" or "straight" categories, but that's just my opinion.
2006-11-18 06:41:08 · answer #3 · answered by emmeaki 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, they're not straight if they're having sex with you. You should probably get over yourself and realize that the guys you think your "turning" are actually gay or bi from the start but confused.
It's just like when some girls think all the attractive guys are gay guys when clearly there are many attractive straight guys out there. She's just purposely finding the gay ones.
2006-11-18 14:10:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, great. A question that combines a "black and white" sense of morality with meaningless labels. First of all, the situation is "right" or "wrong" based entirely on its own merits--There's a difference between seducing a single buddy of yours and seducing your sister's husband. Secondly--you're worried you're going to onfuse guys? Come on, unless you're seducing teen-agers, it's pretty likely that the guy is familiar enough with his own sexual identity for it to survive a come-on from another guy. If you had sex with a woman, would you suddenly start wondering if you were really straight?
2006-11-18 08:44:49 · answer #5 · answered by Patrick C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think gay men seducing straight men is disrespectful. If I'm going to be accepted as a gay man, the least I can do is return the favor and respect the heterosexuality of straight guys.
2006-11-18 07:10:46 · answer #6 · answered by Throbington Steifenholz 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If they can be seduced, they're not straight. Have fun, as long as you're not hurting anyone who thinks you're getting into a long-term thing if all you want is sex. And I wouldn't mess with married ones, either, or anyone with a partner - that's just home-wrecking, which isn't nice.
2006-11-18 06:55:01 · answer #7 · answered by JBoy Wonder 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don;t see any harm in what you are doing. If they did not really want to be involved with you they would never subcumb to your charms
Lots of men try to suduce me but only the ones that I am interested in succeed.
So if these men did not want it they would send you on your way
2006-11-18 06:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Cherry Berry 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've succeeded at seducing Caucasian men ~ I'm at 100% ~ do what you gotta do! ~ but if they get attached, confused, or worse ~ you and your conscious are going to have to live with that. Is it really worth it?
2006-11-18 06:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How could it be wrong? They have free will. If they turn out to be interested, you can open them up to new and exciting aspects of life. I have done it with straight women, and not all of them are perfectly straight now...
2006-11-18 07:20:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋