wont let go even though she filed the divorce papers and they have been apart longer than my ex and I> What should I do about all the drama she TRIES to start?
2006-11-18 06:12:09 · 14 answers · asked by chicken farmer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It is your b/f's job to keep his ex out of the picture and to protect
you from her abuse..
If he cannot protect you then you need to move on...
2006-11-18 06:14:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore the drama. Let your boyfriend deal with her. Just be happy. Don't feed the fire as people say.
If there are no children involved they will no longer have ties, once they are divorced. If there is a child or children you will have to learn to deal with her. Your man will always be connected with her thru the children.
Best of Luck
2006-11-18 06:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your b/f needs to have a serious talk with his ex & tell her to knock it off. If she won't stop or if she steps up the harassment, then some legal action, i.e., a restraining order, might be necessary.
If children are involved, keep in mind that you both will always have to deal with her to some degree. But don't let her control your lives. How your b/f deals or fails to deal with this should give you a clue about his commitment to you. Then you'll need to act accordingly.
Good luck & God bless.
2006-11-18 06:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by WillyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her and concentrate on your relationship. If you let her get to you, she wins. Be sure you can handle this before you continue the relationship. If the ex wife drama is too much get out now. If you're going to stay you need lots of patience.
2006-11-18 06:29:49 · answer #4 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. She is trying to get you to react to justify her overreaction to something that has ended.
Blow her off, never become excited or argumentative. (this will probably make her more pissed off but so what)
You answered your own question in a way when you said "TRIES" to start.
She is trying to get to you - don't let her. Ignore her when it gets real bad and it will stop. When she realizes she has NO affect it will cease.
Sounds a lot like Martha Stewart when she was divorced Ha Ha .
2006-11-18 06:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by Big V 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i might say greater jealous right here than egocentric yet that too. that's precisely what occurs while one gets into waiting made families and hes probably feeling the comparable way approximately you and your toddlers yet finally given sufficient time, those 2 families will gel as one even with the undeniable fact that it isnt going to be hassle-free getting there and there'll constantly be set backs yet in addition its something those youngsters might desire to do for themselves as you 2 have your man or woman stressful circumstances to handle and triumph over right here. you already recognize whats going on yet learn how to handle your thoughts and/or get expert help if prefer be, and anticipate this to ensue because it is going to. What hes coping with along with his ex in seeing his daughter is his activity, no longer yours and he will might desire to discover a manner with coping with bthis , in line with threat with some help from the courts. So in actuality theres alot of "turning out to be" pains right here which will subside with time so wait and notice and dont make the problem any worse. stable success and Merry Christmas
2016-10-04 02:49:05 · answer #6 · answered by grumney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then she needs to let it go and get on with her life and stop trying bring every one else down just because she is not happy.
2006-11-18 06:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess that would depend on what kind of drama you are talking about. why not give us some more details so that we have a better understanding.
2006-11-18 06:18:10 · answer #8 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just ignore her. She is only trying to mess things up for your boyfriend. If she can cause trouble between you two, then she wins. If not, then you two win.
2006-11-18 06:15:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better dont find trouble. there are still a lot of guys out there who are single and avalaible. why find a married guy?
2006-11-18 06:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋