I have feelings so much for somebody at my work and he does not know. How could I discover my passion for him. But does it matter what age he is. I am nineteen and he is in his 20's.
2006-11-18 06:07:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
My boyfriend and I met at work and we are 6 years apart. We have been together for three years now. Age doesn't matter. Just ask him to hang out with you sometime and see what he says.
Good Luck
2006-11-18 06:27:58 · answer #1 · answered by r_finewood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, age doesn't matter. I would talk to him and tell him how you feel. There's nothing wrong with dating a co-worker. If it works out, you'll get to see him more. Just got for it and hope for the best. Good luck.
2006-11-18 14:12:11 · answer #2 · answered by Ordinary Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most states your an adult now, so the choice is yours. The issue that is most important is your relationship with him at work. i think the best thing to do, just to keep things from getting screwed up at work is find the time and opportunity to see him, platonically, outside of work and tell him how you feel about him... Gently... if he responds then you can explore your feelings for him more and if he doesn't drop it. Never initiate the conversation at work though. If he doesn't respond to you and you talk to him at work thing will get really uncomfortable. let him know -- work is work... and off time is off time before you speak to him.
2006-11-18 15:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by jryanwinterhaven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age doesn't matter if you really like him. I mean this 50 yr old dated a 24 yr old. Do you think that is true love? Go ahead. Tell him how you feel about him.
2006-11-18 14:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by romanos_curl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are good friends with him tell him how you feel. I don't think it matters if he is in his 20's and you are nineteen. Best of luck to you!!! :)
2006-11-18 14:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lacuna Coil 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've obviously never dated a coworker. Its a rarity that it will work out, and if you both continue working together after the breakup, it will be very uncomfortable. My advice is to try and find someone who doesnt work with you, or find a new job...
2006-11-18 14:13:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jaded Heart 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personaly i wouldn't date someone i work with because when it ends it leaves both of you uncomfortable and the work atmosphere is strained, but other wise the age issue shouldn't matter if you like him tell him your feelings (not at work though) and see how he feels. i hope this helps
2006-11-18 14:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by erynfaith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. You're young. You obviously don't know the horrors of dating a coworker.
Don't do it. You're going to end up in heartbreak. Coworker relationships seldom work, and usually they end up in a terrible fight that causes one member of the excouple to quit his or her job.
2006-11-18 14:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fish off the company pier.
2006-11-18 14:09:30 · answer #9 · answered by icynici 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to go for it because age is nothiing but a number
2006-11-18 14:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jay B. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋