I am a korean guy and i am 20 years old living in new york. and i just hate being asian you know why, thanks to most white people i hate you guys, because look at all the sterotypes that are in television that are made by the white people and when i was in school i was be afraid of white people calling my korean name or saying ching chong chow mein or why my eyes are so chinky. some white peopel would call me chink or chank and i hate them for that because white people have the power in western culture you know why because they are so perfect. they have perfect big eyes, fair skin and have nothing to sterotype them about. im just sayin ther are some nice white people out there but most of them are racist fuks i hate them for that. like do you think i like having small eyes and standing out in front of white people i just feel like i don't belong in this world. sometimes i wish i was dead so i dont have to feel like crap about being asian. asians people stand out the most in the us.
2006-11-18 05:46:41 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
You think your life is rough? I have been beaten, hanged (But I survived) cut shot at and threatened by bad white people and I still don't hate ALL of them! I am black but even blacks don't like me cause I don't look like the traditional black person. As for standidng out, BLACKS STAND OUT THE MOST! Asains and whites look simular in someways. Ever notice the word caucASIAN? Only reason why you think you have it worse is cause all you are thinking of IS YOURSELF! Don't you think that people that beleive what the TV say are stupid? I am sure you don't want to hang out with stupid peiople! Now stop worring about what others think and focus on your good quality's......
2006-11-18 05:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by Wandering Sage 6 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Being different from people during high school isn't always celebrated. In fact, that is why you're being picked on. Being Asian myself (half Asian), I used to be a little ashamed of my Chinese heritage and never wanted people to know my middle name (which is Chinese). I have since grown out of that and have become quite proud of my heritage and I love that my name is unique. There will come a time for you when you truly embrace who you are, and that is when you'll begin to thrive as a person. These people you go to school with are picking on the most obvious part of you, your race. They aren't intelligent or imaginative. I hope you have good friends in school who will build you up, when these losers try to knock you down. You do not need eyelid surgery! Asian eyes are beautiful!!!
2016-03-29 00:43:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like the racist one. I've only been made fun of once for being Asian, and it was just in a teasing way, it wasn't bullying or anything like that. Take a joke bro, you sound like you get offended wayyyy to easily. Yeah there are some racist white people, but there are racist people of all ethnic backgrounds so just generalizing like that is stupid. I haven't even come across any racist white people maybe except for like one or two but that's it. This just sounds like a confidence problem honestly. I'm not pitying myself for being asian, there are way worse problems out there. And if this monolid/small eyes problem is bugging you, save up and get surgery done. If you don't accept yourself you're gonna continue to have low self-esteem and be miserable for a while...
2016-12-06 11:51:00 · answer #3 · answered by theonlyshadybox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear you feel this way because I am white American and I can tell you that what you are thinking and feeling is basicly not right. My race also has alot of flaws and we try to be kind and understanding sometimes to a fault. Everybody has something about them selves that they don't like or want such as crazy hair big bones bad health ugly clothes teeth exctra.Growing up I was picked on for being poor and the rich kids were picked on because their mother was fat or their Daddy was a drunk or they wore old clothes lived in small houses or the boat wasn't like ours on on. This is not something to get hooked on. Many folks spend their whole lives trying to be something they are not while others waste a life time dreaming about things they don't really need or actually want but it is human nature to strive to keep up with the neighbors or basicly change your neighborhood to one that is more to your liking. In the end it isn't really worth dying for when you sit down and rationally think this out. My parting words to you is something my father once said to me when I said I hate my life and I'm moving and never comming back here again-- No matter what you do or where you go you will always take your self with you. The moral is you can't change the whole world to force them to understand or even like you but there is one person that you can change to be a better person and that is your self. Until I decided to change myself I would always have these kind of problems. Maybe it isn't the world at large you are in doubt about so much as it is you and the fact that you have low self estem issues and until you work on them you will always feel like the world is against you and my friend this frankly is not true because I like everyone and I only wish the best for them and you!! Good Luck I hope you feel better in the morning. In parting go to the closest mirror and look your self in the eyes and say hey Im a great person and I deserve to have a great life!
2006-11-18 06:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by yahoo 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I love Asian people...they're the nicest people I've ever met. Be proud of who you are. Don't let those insecure white people bring you down and make you hate your heritage. White people are not perfect...no one is. They just think they are. They have big pointy noses, scraggly hair, and pale skin. That's why tanning booths were invented. I don't think Asian people stand out the most in the U.S.....its either Muslims or African Americans. But don't feel bad about who you are....they should. Especially since Asian people are smarter than white people. So be a proud Korean!
2006-11-18 08:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Trini-HaitianGrl81 5 · 8⤊ 4⤋
Keep in mind that people who make fun of others generally do so out of low self confidence. You mention fair skin being perfect, yet many with fair skin go lay in the sun and go to tanning beds risking skin cancer to have your skin tone. I hope you can eventually have pride in your heritage and realize that those you look down on you because of it are not worth the worry.
2006-11-18 06:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda 4 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that you feel this frustration about people and about yourself. It's not easy being a person of color, I know. First do not inferiate yourself because you do not have the "perfect" look that is bombared into our subconscious. I find many Asian sexy and yes I would and have dated some. I want more actually. Are you single?
2006-11-19 00:29:50 · answer #7 · answered by Vanessa 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
U r so stupid I would do anything to be Asian so let's switch bodies plz ps. Im black
2015-05-20 12:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by Charles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen dude...dont feel bad just cuz these retards are making racist comments about you...just remember ....people verbally attack other people becuz they are afraid ...so the only way they can feel "superior" to others is by making that person feel bad about themselves...you need to ignore these racist pigs and concentrate on your future and career....dont be ashamed of who u are...we are all humans..we all bleed the same...granted our physical appearance may differentiate us...but in the end...eventually we will all turn to dust...it doenst matter white,,black,yellow, brown,red or whatever else color....live ur life as happy as you can and to the fullest...
2006-11-18 05:58:18 · answer #9 · answered by nfocuz00 4 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Yes some white folks are hateful, but so are others, we don't own the "hate market"! None of us has control of our birth parents. You might as well accept who you are and be happy with it, it sure isnt going to change!
2006-11-18 05:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by MC 7 · 9⤊ 0⤋