My supposed "best" friend has been lying to me for the past 6 months.
He "ex" b/f started calling ME back in January because he wanted to know if his g/f cheated on him (which she did) - he kept calling so i told her about this and changed my number.
She told me that she brok up with him back in June but i found out yesterday from a close friend of hers (not her best friend like me) that she's been meeting up with this "ex" and that they are still together.
At the same time, she's been telling me that she's been dating someone else; she talks about him and BORES ME with stories about her b/f...now im thinking she's either been lying to me, or being the cheating rat that she always has been and referring to both!
Now should i confront her about her lying to me like this or stay quiet. if i talk to her about it, chances are i will break up with her causing further problems such as the fact that i sit next to her in class etc...
I have evidence that i know she's been lying.
2006-11-18 05:23:21 · 6 answers · asked by Miss Terious 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
These are lousy people.
You shouldn't waste your time on them.
2006-11-18 05:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant imagine why she would be lying about her ex bf. There doesnt seem to be a good reason for it?!
Its a bit of a concern if you find ur friend is lying. If they lie some stuff- how can u know that they're not lying about other stuff?
I think that you SHOULD confront her about this. If she tells you the truth, then great! If not, then you can still be friends, but mayb u shouldnt trust her as much as previously. I've got friends that I dont completely trust. I just make sure that they don't use me and that I don't tell them anything too personal.
As far as the BORING stories about her bf, well, I'm not sure that there is anything you can do about it, except change the subject after awhile. I'm not always fascinated about boyfriend stories either, but I listen because I care about what matters to my friend.
All the best!
2006-11-18 22:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by its_just_me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, what do you care who she goes with? She's your friend cos you like her company (I assume). She's not prefect an none of us is - we all lie at some time. You're not planning to marry her or have a long term relationship, so you don't have to worry if she's a flakey chick - just accept that's the way she is, kick back and relax.
2006-11-18 13:28:29 · answer #3 · answered by Matt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the birds a liar aint worth a turd get a grip, wakey wakey
2006-11-18 18:46:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is your friend then you should be able to confront her have a fight and go back to being mates that's if she is a true mate
2006-11-18 13:28:42 · answer #5 · answered by LISA T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should make clear to save your friendship
2006-11-19 04:42:27 · answer #6 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋