i have sort of been with this boy james*, he is in the year above me at school and he is gorgeous. Then we had this lil row nd we just sort of stayed friends who are really flirty! Meanwhile one of his really sweet mates has told me he likes me, and all of my mates are telling me to forget about james* as he hardly talks to me at school, and get with lee*, i have told lee that i liked him aswel, but i still like james*! this is really confusing for me, anyone out there who can help me?....sorry i told you my whole life story!
2006-11-18 05:18:41 · 11 answers · asked by lalalalala 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
be with both.
2006-11-18 05:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart: I know you are confused. That goes hand in hand with being young. Please don't get hung up on any one boy. You have a whole life ahead of you, and there are so many boys. Concentrate on school. Go to college. Start a career. Become your own person. Somewhere along the way a nice guy will come along (who doesn't blow you off over some minor disagreement). When he does come along and if you are emotionally ready, you won't be confused. So, in the mean time, go out with Lee, stay friends with James. But don't put all your eggs in one boy's basket.
2006-11-18 13:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Barry G 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....when we were in High School all the girls fought over a James and Lee too.....history is repeating itself......
Have a good talk with James, sounds like that's where your heart is.
Lee sounds really nice, I say if it doesn't work out for you and James, your friends are right....give Lee a try!!
Good Luck to you!!!
2006-11-18 13:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say.
If you really like Lee, try going out with him. Mabye james is too dumb to chase you or not sufficiently interested.
If you dont really like Lee and are nuts only on James, you can just be avant guard an ask him on a actual date. If he blows you off, then mabye the right guy is Brad and sadly you have not met Brad yet!!!
Dont be afraid to wait a bit. You are young you have much to see in the world
2006-11-18 13:24:58 · answer #4 · answered by rostov 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dating is not being committed to any one person. Go out, have fun, and if James wants a date also, make sure you explain to them both, dating is dating, and serious relationships take time to build. So date, have fun, but all the time be looking for the RIGHT guy.
2006-11-18 13:23:30 · answer #5 · answered by Joseph L 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pick whichever seems like they'd spend more time with you because the odds are stacked that you're not going to be still with either of them in a decade.
2006-11-18 13:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by ribbon13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there i would say you are still very young so go for it, and get with lee, and if it doesnt work out move on and have some fun , why settle down when your so young enjoy yourself...
2006-11-19 08:32:26 · answer #7 · answered by pammy d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also confused.....what do you mean by James*??? Lee*? Are they male or female? You came to Gay/Les/Bi to ask this sort of questions ??? I am confused by your confusion ??
2006-11-18 13:23:47 · answer #8 · answered by Bright 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say choose the one you have the most feeling for and you can make your own decision.
2006-11-18 13:37:49 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on a date with them both,have fun, then decide which one you want to have a relationship with xx
2006-11-18 13:53:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is one of them bi or transgendered, why is this question under this category?
2006-11-18 13:21:27 · answer #11 · answered by sixcannonballs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋