Umm... Ok i go to this dance studio and i really hate it. My mom is paying for it and i really dont want to go. I cant quit because my brother really wants to go there. Im afraid if i quit that if i leave the girls will be mean to me. Plus im in the middle of a dance and they already bought my costume. i still have 5 months before i can quit. I have skiped a lot of classes and the teacher is sort of mad at me, WHAT DO I DO?
2006-11-18 05:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Dancing
Well, it's a difficult situation, but i think you should not do what you don't like. i think you should really talk to your parents about this situation.
2006-11-18 05:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, skipping classes is a BAD idea. Not only will your dance teacher be mad at you, so will your parents because you are wasting their hard earned money.
You have already made a commitment and since you know the rountine and have a costume you may as well not waste it so wait until after your year-end recital before quitting. I know it may not seem fair but put yourself in the other dancer's positions. One of their fellow classmates quits and they don't have a sub. It makes THEIR routine look worse and they will be upset with you not because you have lost interest in dance, because you let them down.
When you quit at the end of the year, consider your options before you do so. Ask yourself these questions.
Are you sure you don't want to continue?
Why don't you want to dance anymore?
Will you regret the desicion you make?
If you honestly and truly don't want to dance anymore, that is okay. You can't keep doing something you hate because your afraid of people being mad at you, you have to want to dance. When you dance you can tell if someone has a passion for dancing right in the first 20 seconds of the routine. If dancing is not for you take up a different sport, or creat a new hobby.
Follow your heart. <3<3<3
2006-11-18 16:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by Tiny Dancer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just get the 5 months over with and be there most of the time so the teacher doesnt hate u as much.
then after the 5 months try to talk to your mom and see if you can change dance studio or just stop dancing (if you want).
if you keep on thinking it is the worst dance studio ever then in your mind it will be but if u dont think of it that way it will be better.
and just think that after the 5 months is over you are free so do the best you can while u can.
make the dance teacher and studio think that it is their loss that u are not going to keep dancing there.
i know you probably arent going to pick me as best answer but just at least read my answer and try to do it because i think it will help good luck!
2006-11-19 04:42:31 · answer #3 · answered by ilovemydogii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel, but hang in there. First of all, u shouldn't worry at all about the other girls. Who cares! there r a lot of people in the dancing world and they cannot all care about each other. it just doesn't work that way! Talk to ur parents explain to them. U never HAVE to do anything. For me as a profesional dancer, it kills me when someone dances hating it! or if u really can't get out of it, try a different type of dance that u may like, like hip hop or w/e. i know this all can be tough but be strong. u r not alone
2006-11-20 20:04:48 · answer #4 · answered by dancer4life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your in a tough spot. Looks like it may be best if you tough it out until you can quit. Since your mom is paying for the class and they already bought your costume. The teacher is on your case. If you only could have left sooner.
2006-11-18 13:29:34 · answer #5 · answered by Rosie the Riviter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to your parents about it...and missing classes will make them even madder at you. You should try telling them that you don't want to go. If you didn't like it from the beginning you should have told them. Stick to it for a while...if they bought your costume and you're in the middle of a dance then, go along for a while. If your parents agree then you'll be out of it, if they don't then you're going to have to stick to it.
2006-11-18 14:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lioness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as a mom in a very similar situation ( I put my son in soccer....he hates it) You can tell her how you feel. I'm sure she won't appreciate it after having spent the money. Maybe she can get some money back if you don't complete, and maybe she can money back off your costume. I would suggest though, you tell her how you feel. Finish off you're five months, and then don't bother with it again.
2006-11-18 13:23:31 · answer #7 · answered by ♥N,K,E&DJ'§ Mommy♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait til you can quit, tell your mom that dancing just isn't your thing, and tell your brother that even though you don't like it he still can
by not quiting now you wont be thought of as a quitter and you'll keep your friends from dance and no one will get mad at you
2006-11-18 20:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by bex d. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend you are enjoying it, to some extent. Go to the practices and remain with it so. Keep on with it and go for it. When it's over, just say it's not something you'd like to do again.
2006-11-18 13:22:55 · answer #9 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your Mom .Because if your heart isn't in it you are just wasting everyones time including your own.
2006-11-21 02:04:08 · answer #10 · answered by jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋