I know this is like the same question I had before, but now I found out that his girlfriend is not pregnant that she only told him that because he was going to break up with her. Now many of you said that I should not have kissed him because it complicated his life and mine. In a way, yes, it did complicate things but it also answered a lot of the questions that I was wanting to ask. When I kissed him, he was single and did not have a girlfriend. I admitted to him that I have been in love with him and I am not waiting in an obsessive way, but I am waiting for him to realize how much he means to me because I can no longer show nor tell him. I did let him go, about 8 times and each time, he has come back to me on his own without me praying or wishing. I know we are meant to be together, everyone knows it. He should be with me because she will never, ever love him as much as I do. I just have to wait until he realizes that. I have tried to move on but my heart will not let me. What to do?
2006-11-18 05:17:21 · 15 answers · asked by ILoveSimplePlan23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
THERE IS NO QUESTION OF LIKING WITHOUT LOVE.
2006-11-19 14:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like my life. At 51, I have learned that If someone truely loves you - they will tell you somehow or someway. But, waiting for the "one" of your dreams may never come. Being alone for awhile will not kill you by all means. It will give you time to be comfortable with your own self. To thine own self me true. Says a lot. Take care of you and sooner or later love will find you. But, waiting on a certain person can drive you crazy. If he truely loves you, he will let you know. My mother gave me good advice once; don't marry him if you can live without him!
2006-11-18 13:31:43 · answer #2 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to leave him and let him make up his mind about who he wants to be with. Living on the sideline only fills his needs. He keeps checking back with you to see if you're still there. Move on, make your own life, and when he contacts you, which he will, tell him he can't do that until he leaves her. No matter how much you love him, you can't make him feel what he doesn't feel.
2006-11-18 13:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by alicebeaching 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all change your yahoo name broken heart .i know if it happend to me you'll say i might know. it has even happened to me but accept life as it comes and the best thing is you are not married to him.Don' hear what people say .if you get a very nice husband tomorrow they'll change and tell you ---shee we told you you will get a nicer guy than him. so belive in yourself and if you want to settle in life stop thinking how much i love is more than her. instead go for a person who loves none but you. There's a saying "For the world you're someone but for someone you are the world" Be that world for someone and you'll enjoy your rest life.
2006-11-18 19:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by kirtik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If you were truely meant to be, you two will meet again. Love will find a way. But if you weren't meant to be, you are just hindering each other.
2006-11-18 14:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Paola G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be :you could not make him understand or he may be thinking that you may not suit his requirements as wife. Your feelings you can carry on continue but u can not expect him to follow u.
I understand its very hard to face this situation. But it is life and u have to accept the things as they come into ur life.
2006-11-19 23:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by SureshkumarYVS from hyderabad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force love. It is either there or not. With time, you will find someone else who will love you as you do. For now, leave him behind and start anew.
2006-11-19 04:45:55 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like you i also like somebody ,but when i realise that he did not like me i got upset but it is not his fault .because he never see me like that .we are good friends and i do not want that when he come to know that i love him ,he leave me .I don't want to loose good friend like .we are not lovers,atleast i can share my problems with him .i know that he has a girlfriend but i still love him from the bottom of my heart .now i don't want him because it is not possible .and remember one thing,"if you love something set it free if it comes back it is yours ,if it doesn't,it never was.
2006-11-18 14:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl,let him go,its not gonna be easy but sometimes we hold on to things that god is really trying to tear apart
2006-11-18 13:31:15 · answer #9 · answered by Tydie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him and tell him that next time when you come just come with the final answer. thats all.
2006-11-19 07:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋