2006-11-18 05:09:33 · 20 answers · asked by ~K!MB3RLY~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wants to have an affair. Tell him you know, if he lies more, leave him.
2006-11-18 05:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by QueenofLeon 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
confront him first with what u know, tell him how much this has hurt u, if he fails to take responsibility, or he lies, or tries to push it under the rug as if it isn't that big of an issue than theres not too much hope in changing the situation, and what u see is what u get. if he is telling other's he is single, and giving out his cell number, than he is open for having an affair, and that spells the end of your marriage as u know it. personally rather than suffer anymore i would get a divorce unless u have children and in that case i would insist he go to counciling. if he refused i would not expect any changes from him.
2006-11-18 10:28:09 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I would have to ask him why? Then I would tell him if he wants to be single then he should take himself else where.......he is looking to cheat if he has not already. If he answers the question honestly and he tells you because of the problems in the marriage working on them see if they can be resolved.
2006-11-18 05:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by Rigssy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry you are going through this.
I caught my x doing the same thing.
Its not your fault. He is responsible for his actions.
You deserve better. If he is giving out his cell number, he is already cheating, even if it's only in his head.
Confront him and get out.
YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!
You don't need anyone bringing you down.
You are beautiful and deserving of true love
Good Luck
2006-11-18 07:20:04 · answer #4 · answered by Dawn F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hubby is looking for a little sex on the side...
Is he getting anything & everything he wants from you ?
2006-11-18 05:12:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously in the mood for an affair, tell him you know about it. However, i don't know what good that is going to do, if he is going to cheat he is going to cheat and their is really nothing you can do about it. Sorry, but sounds as though you need to move on. I personally, would leave and go on with my life. He is a liar and a cheat. God bless***************************
2006-11-18 05:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is doing one of two things, either doing it because he needs the excitement, or is looking for someone to replace you. either way it tells me that something in the marriage is not right, you need to discuss this conduct with him and hear his reply to find out what's going on. any man looking at forbidden fruit is acting on some form of desire, and that desire can become fruitful very quickly. the fact that he is shopping is a warning sign act on it
2006-11-18 05:13:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not good hun. You need to talk. SERIOUSLY!!!! Something is lacking in your relationship.My best bud just went thu this. Her husband was envious of the affefction that he saw other couples giving one another.
2006-11-18 05:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by chicken farmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have RED FLAG RED FLAG RED FLAG !!!!!!! He is very much cheating on you!! It is time to pull that curtain back and expose him for the dirty nasty pig he is. He has no respect for him self or you. You have two choices here, one either leave him or put up with it. UNLESS you think you can change him, good luck.
2006-11-18 05:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is preparing for an Affair. You should call him on it and let him know he has been found out.
2006-11-18 05:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is giving out his cell phone that's all you need to know. Confront him about it and if he lies or minimizes his behavior get rid of him.
2006-11-18 07:46:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋