I dated this guy and he broke up with me because he said it "wasn't working out". Well now hes after my friend and hes a jerk so i dont want my best friend dating him, i dont want her to get hurt like I did. What should I do?? She deserves way better then him and shes starting to like him because hes playing an act and acting sweet towards her. Help Me!
2006-11-18 05:08:53 · 28 answers · asked by Brianna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The only thing you can do is talk to your friend about how he hurt you. It's up to her whether or not she listens, but at least you can sya you warned her if it doesn't work out. Just let her not you don't wanna see her get hurt. But if she still insists on going out with him, don't let it ruin your friendship, just be there for her when he does what he did to you.
2006-11-18 05:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk to her about this guy and tell her he is an insensitive jerk and she deserves way better because I bet there relation ship will be on and off for like ever I should Know One of my old boyfriends dumpted me and then went out with my best friend and later they broke up and sence not last friday but the friday before that they started going out AGAIN!!!!
And I can bet you they will break up again this year!!!
2006-11-18 13:13:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
your friend is well aware of the fact that the two of you did not work out. but here is the thing. what makes him a jerk? did he lie to you? did he cheat on you? no! just because he felt that things were not working out with the two of you does not make him a jerk. he was honest about things with you, be thankful that he was others may have cheated. so, leave the two of them alone and tell her you hope it works out for the two of them. don't bad mouth him to her either, because it sound to me you really have no reason too.
2006-11-18 14:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Brianna! (i'm not yelling at you) but, you have to let people find out for themselves. I wouldn't want my girlfriend to get hurt either. So, to distract her from him, take you and your girlfriend to get a makeover! Then, talk to her while your getting your nails done about how you feel. If she refuses, thats when it is time to get on your knees and pray. Prayer changes things. And, your ex, the way he's playing the "sweet role" and its not really him I have a phrase for that, "Whats done in the dark comes to the light" so what I mean is, he'll be discovered for who he is and then he'll get kicked to the curb!
2006-11-18 13:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Careatha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Warn her. Tell her to be careful and try to find out what he is up to. Like a friend that dated this guy and it turned out she was part of a bet.
2006-11-18 13:44:43 · answer #5 · answered by romanos_curl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may have to learn for herself if she ends up being with him. It might just be that she's getting caught up in the moment and not realizing how much he hurt you. Or she may have liked him from before and didn't want to say anything to you for fear of hurting you. You need to talk to her and tell her how you feel.
2006-11-18 13:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by cutegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is not much you can do. Just tell her what you think of him and let her make her own decisions. If your friend had any class she wouldn't be dating an ex of yours. She's not showing you much respect. Have you thought about that?
2006-11-18 13:12:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should kill both of them with kindness! get my drift, say it doesnt bother you even though it does I know and tell him and her your happy for them and don't contact them anymore...if they call you sweetie, then just answer the phone and be pleasant....she will not know what hit her and neither will he....see they think your going to get pissed off and it kindof feeds the fire even more, dont let it...she will see through him and if she dont, shes not a very good friend anyways, who needs her.
2006-11-18 13:18:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
to begin, if your friend is even concerting dating him in the first place she deserves everything she gets b-cus FRIENDS DON'T DATE FRIENDS EX 'S BAD BAD MOVE GET REID OF THEM BOTH NOW..
2006-11-18 13:21:06 · answer #9 · answered by jen j 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me: Do I detect a rather slim chance of jealousy here? I should think you'd leave your friend to do her own stumbling in life. As long as he didn't do anything considering a felony, leave them alone, maybe they'll hit it off.
2006-11-18 13:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋