Hey,
My friend, Amy, like's this guy, she's really shy and I'm not (proof of this I'll go say hi to random people), she won't even speak to him, and has a code name for him???? It's kind of weird... Amy asked Me and my other friends to send him a letter saying that there's a girl in his art class who really likes him, and wants him to ask her out..... The thing is my friend made me write these things "she's gorgeous and really knows how to throw a party." (it's not that she's not pretty, she is) And lots other stuff in the note that did not sound like Amy. Why do friends change around guys???? Like I've been friends with guys, older, my older sister and brothers friends and my friends for years, and don't find it weird talking to guys, even ones I like... How do I get my friend to like to take control of her own life and start talking to him and acting weird about him.. Why doesn't she ask him out??? She won't even tell him, she sent the note, or even say hi to him???
Anyways, Karin
2006-11-18 05:06:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm 13 and so is she, I've liked guys, and so has she, but she's never had a boyfriend but she wants one.
2006-11-18 05:17:47 · update #1
I know just what you mean. I really don't know how to explain any of this because when I was in school there was this girl that really did like me but she would never asked me how to say anything to me. She was really shy but very pretty after several years I found out that she really did like me a lot. I wish I would have knew this or she would have told me because I wouldn't love to go out with her. Maybe the best thing that you can do is try to find out whether or not this guy is at all interested in her. If he is maybe you should drop the few hints around and maybe he will get the idea that it is okay for him to ask her out. Some guys are really intimidated when girls come on to them. Try to find how he feels and try to get him to make the first move. Good luck
2006-11-18 05:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by buddyl52 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really could be that studying the family types is what she
has not considered. Sometimes girls can be shy due to the
reality check of future feedback. Approaching guys is some
places a notice to the boys entire family. The nose is the
common tool used on teens and for teens by their own families.
When excitement, interactions, and differences lead to a kiss.
Some people need to consider these actions to protect their
own future. A good luck kiss is a powerful tool for girls.
So careful of what you ask her to do, hobbies, crafts, magic
rainbows, fashions, and shopping are good in tweens and
high school for ice breakers. Let her think about the real
duties of friends, for a good confidence status. Events plans,
sharing ideals, and natural favorite colors are some topics.
2006-11-18 05:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by mtvtoni 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking that she is very young to start with or it's the first guy she has ever liked.
She has to develop that courage by herself, you can't help with anything other than just talk with her.
I think the major factor is that she is afraid that the guy might not like her at all and might find her ugly or something and she will be embarrased. She is trying to avoid the embarrasment i think too, but hey she is not giving up she is trying through letters and stuff lol
2006-11-18 05:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!
i have had the same problem with some friends. the reason why is because they want to either impress the guy or become exactly like them. such as listening to the same music doing the same sport musical instrument and so forth. they want the guy to think that they are perfect for them. but sometimes they dont have the courage to go up and ask him because they arent really themselves. i suggest you tell your friend Amy to just be herself around him and not make herself more like him. he really needs to see her how she acts when he's not around. And if she really likes him tell Amy to ask him out! it might get them further along in a realationship
erica
2006-11-18 05:12:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her bust a move or else he will find someone else.Don't be scared she is only alive for this day so don't waste it.Victorio
2006-11-18 05:11:02 · answer #5 · answered by Victorio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to the guy and tell him how it is and just maybe he will ask her out then she will loose her shyness and act normal
2006-11-18 05:17:53 · answer #6 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is so shy try telling her to overcome the fear. then she will be confident.
2006-11-18 05:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by Promise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋