Hes first wife left hes kids in which he has been rasing for the past three years and she wanted nothing to do with the girls until she seen they were happy and he was happy with me. His other ex is just a pain she keeps claiming the little girls she has now may or maynot be his and that she is preg. with his little boy but she wont tell the truth. An she wont take him for child support so he can see the little girl. I just wont them to stop making trouble before they tear us apart because I am so ready to leave even though I love him and the girls.
2006-11-18 05:05:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He knows how to pick the women with low integrity, low morals , and low IQ...Men and women frequently choose the same character types for each relationship...you have to ask yourself are you his type?
2006-11-18 05:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by toe poe gee gee oh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have known that this was going to get complicated when you got involved with him. Both of his ex wives will be a part of his life for the next 18 years or more because he has children with them. You've got to be very patient and understanding around the children and do the best you can to just get along with the ex's if you want to stay in this relationship. Have the one ex have a DNA test and that will solve that problem. You really need to think about if this is what you want for your life. If it's too much for you, get out now before the children get too attached. Family counseling may help all of you...including the children. I hope the childrens well being comes first to all of you. They are the innocent ones in all of this.
2006-11-18 05:57:03 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, I think you should try to see how they are feeling about there kids being with a strange women, and being raised by her... And please consult the girls, they are the ones that are being effected the most... I come from a divorced home, and my parents always put me and my siblings in the middle,. My Dad even took my Mom to court over us, we just wanted to be with our Mom... Please don't get washed up in what you want, think of what they want too.
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2006-11-18 05:15:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-15 17:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by boatright 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hum sounds like he has a pattern of being with phyco's,,,maybe you should check yourself, and dump him. Or you are next,,, you can't fix him, his ex's..or there problems...really dump him save yourself. And your 5 childern, there dad's, another soap oprea.
2006-11-18 05:17:06 · answer #5 · answered by brp_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely, i would not have a baby with this man or you will be right in the same position with him. They are never going to go away, if you stay with him you will be dealing with these issues the rest of your life. God bless**********************
2006-11-18 05:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋