I broke my best friends heart?

Question

I broke my best freinds heart?
I hurt the man of my dreams. The guy I would do anything for. The guy who was my best friend because of a stupid night that I don't even remember. He won't talk to me. He told me that in a month we could talk. He said not to text him, call him, talk to him or do anything till the month is done. I can't believe I hurt the man I loved more than anything. He wont look me in the face when I talk to him I know that in a month that he will have been cooled dwon but I said I was sorry so many times to him. I miss him terribly. Every song I hear reminds me of him. It so hard to know that the one guy who you would do anything for doesn't love you back. I don't know what to do. What do you guys think i should do? Thanks you very much for your help in advance. I appreciate it.

Answer 1

hard to answer this question since i dont know what it is you did? i guess all you can do is respect his wishes and give him time to cool down and decide how to handle things after you find out what it was that you did.

Answer 2

wow, what did you do? It must have been bad, but please stop beating yourself up over it. He has reacted badly and needs time to cool down.

Leave him alone. That's what he's asked you for. Give him space. Perhaps write a short letter, don't over do it, just setting down what you have said here. Tell it simply; say you have realised how much you have hurt him, and ask him if he could forgive you in time, bearing in mind all the good times you have had together. True friendship will hold fast.

In the meantime, use that quiet time for yourself to reflect on how it's going to be in future. Go easy on yourself. Forgive yourself. We all do stupid things, we are only human. Good luck.

Answer 3

Its normal for best friends of the opposite sex to have feelings for each other. Did you know that he had feelings for you? All it takes is one wrong decision and things will never be the same. No matter how hard you try, that person will never forget. A person can forgive but never forget. That is why when a person loses trust, it is hard to gain it back. I don't know what you did, but you need to give him space. I hope you guys can keep your friendship. Good luck...

Answer 4

YOU TOLD HIM SORRY DON'T BEG HIM ANY MORE HE WILL COME TO HIS SENSES IF HE LOVES YOU BACK . LATER IN LIFE YOU WILL REALIZE HOW DUMB IT IS TO BEG FOR SOMEONES FORGIVENESS I KNOW ITS HARD PREOCCUPY YOUR TIME WITH SCHOOL THINGS WILL CHANGE DO NT LET THIS PERSON BE YOUR CENTER OF YOUR ATTENTION LIVE AND LEARN . ITS STUPID FOR HIM TO TELL YOU WAITE A MONTH OPEN YOUR EYES HES UP TO NO GOOD I KNOW ITS HARD BUT, REALLY OPEN YOUR EYES HERES THAT SIGNAL THE SIGN THAT HE DOESN'T CARE LET HIM GO BE STRONG IM SURE YOUR MOM CAN GIVE YOU GOOD ADVICE AND THE ONLY TRULY BEST FRIEND YOU HAVE IS YOUR PARENTS OR A CLOSE RELATIVE YOUR FOCUS SHOULD BE SCHOOL IF HE DOESN'T LOVE BACK THEN YOU DON'T NEED TO BE WITH HIM DONT WASTE YOUR TIME YOU WILL REGRET IT

Answer 5

Yeah, give him space. That's all he needs, he's thinking right now.

What's ment to be always comes back.

Answer 6

Reap what you sow, respect his wishes and pray for the best.

Answer 7

depends on what you did to him really... if you cheated on him he may not forgive you but then he may its really hard to answer your q because you didnt give enough info srry

Answer 8

if he wants 2 be left alone, leave him alone. he'll talk when hes ready

Answer 9

What exactly did you do?

Answer 10

is this a story?????????????????????????????