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My wife's twin sister came over late last night while my wife was babysitting my sister's kids and crawled in
bed while i was asleep & started messing around. It was dark & i did not know it was her ,until i her until it was over and she said something..Should i tell my wife or just give my sister-in-law a good lecture?? Shes a ding bat anyway !!makes me want to puke!!

2006-11-18 04:43:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

25 answers

Woah... YES tell your wife. FOR SURE!!! Especially if you had no idea, then its almost like rape!

2006-11-18 04:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0 1

First things first you may want to go get tested for stds if you didn't use protection. It would be really sad if you choose not to tell your wife, and she finds out in a whole other way then you will be in real trouble. Although I would suggest if you love your wife, and have good relationship with her that you be honest. I can't say she isn't going to take it hard, but honesty goes a lot farther in the respect department then lye's do, and not telling her could be even worse. What will you do if she ends up hearing it through the grape vine. She will never trust you again. Is that a chance you really want to take? Well I wish you luck, and hope all goes well.

2006-11-18 05:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by December K 1 · 0 0

WOW....this is something...this is a hard one...while I'd like to think your wife would forgive you for the mistake-i cant imagine her thinking you were genuinely trying to cheat on her in this situation-it also helps to think about how this will affect her relationship with her sister...assuming its a good one. It may be better to just talk to your sis-in-law and give her a STERN talkin to...damn this is bordering on incest, what is wrong with this ? Hopefully you can bury this part of your life...you might need a jackhammer to bury it deep enough though lol...good luck.

2006-11-18 04:48:58 · answer #3 · answered by Dale H 1 · 0 0

I think that you should tell your wife beforee the twin sister does,if there is no love lost between you it wont be long befor your secret is out,and if it was as you say an accident on your part i would get in first.and tell her what happened.

2016-05-22 01:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Tell your wife before her sister says that you forced her into it. be sure to face some hostility though. No matter how close you guys are shell want to believe her twin

2006-11-18 04:54:48 · answer #5 · answered by tennis*star 2 · 0 0

Tell your wife ... Think about what would happen if your wife heard it from her sister and not you. There'd be a problem. Or they could have both gotten together and that was just a prank they chose to play on you. Girls can be smart at times.

2006-11-18 04:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by Why Not 3 · 0 1

wow man. thats almost every mans dream come true, hahaha. but its cool that ur confused bout it. i wish i could answer that for you. i guess my answer would be think about if your wife has every said anything about you maybe wanting to be with her twin b4. deffinately talk to the twin. if i was you id make the twin tell ur wife right in front of you, if you do decide to tell ur wife. hard decision. good luck man!

2006-11-18 04:48:04 · answer #7 · answered by J S 1 · 0 1

you shouldn't tell your wife becuase that would just make her feel bad. but i DO think you should tell the twin's husband becuase he should know what his wife has been up to!

2006-11-18 04:49:07 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah C 2 · 0 0

i would tell the truth that way her twin sister doesn't tell your wife and get you in even more trouble

2006-11-18 04:46:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Wow! Tell you wife's sister to back off and that you thought it was her sister...(your wife). Tell your wife immediately!!! Don't delay.

2006-11-18 04:47:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Tell your wife, dude. TELL HER. This crazy wench won't stop there. What she did was vile and more then a little nuts. IT WILL ESCALATE if you do nothing and if this comes out later it WILL BE YOUR FAULT.

2006-11-18 04:46:48 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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