Im 14 years old and planning on saving myself for marrige. Is it a turn off?
2006-11-18 04:37:33 · 18 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Its totally a turn on, you have no idea how much guys usually value such a girl who haven't been taken by a guy already. So, one thing I'm sure that if you can save yourself for your lawful husband then he'd surely honor and respect you for that. And also, he'd have this extra feelings that he wouldn't have for other s l u t s. There's no way it could be a turn off. If it was a turn off then why would guys want to have a virgin so badly?
2006-11-18 04:44:06 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And yet another NBC's Dateline "To Catch A Predator" story....Nice, real nice. Ya know sweetie, putting your "business" out here on the good ol' internet is a sure way to get attention for all the wrong reasons. Please be careful, play it smarter on the internet. I'm sure you'll have a smart alic remark for me but I'm also sure you're parents wouldn't appreciate some 55 year old man concerned about you worrying about "turning anyone off" at age 14.
2006-11-18 12:44:16 · answer #2 · answered by mother_flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a good idea to wait to have sex. I dont think at 14 you should have it. I also think that if you meet the right guy down the road like at 18 or older why not get involved sexually i dont think you should have to wait till marriage. My friend waited till she knew she was going to marry the guy. I mean they were not married but they knew it was going to happen in a few yrs. I also think that its a good idea before hand to make sure you like the guy and are intimate with him before you do decide to get married. I you do decide to have sex be safe and use condoms, the pill or both untill you are ready to have children.
2006-11-18 12:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Lauren M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I know i'm not a male, but your question is absolutely fine. their is nothing wrong with saving yourself, its so sexy and moral. I think you should share this to girls your age. thses days young females do not have the common sense and morality you seem to have. and my opinion, a man loves a woman who is waiting for him only, i think its a special thing to do. god bless babe! and I hope you follow through with this matter!
2006-11-18 12:44:59 · answer #4 · answered by old 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say, if it was a turn off to a male, then that is not the male you are saving yourself for!
2006-11-18 12:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by joe_rocket_81 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what? 14 and saving yourself for marrage, its not a turn off but i think ur a lil young to save yourself. im 16 and no one is doing that where i am
2006-11-18 12:41:10 · answer #6 · answered by Joe V 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you are too young to even ask. If you save yourself until you are 18 + you will enjoy your life so much more then if you become a tramp today.
2006-11-18 12:42:18 · answer #7 · answered by veerfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately it is in a lot of cases. Im not trying to put you down, I respect you for what you are doing, but a lot of guys don't see it that way- especially if you are very attractive, which i'll assume you are b/c I'm a nice guy. But any guy who truly cares for you will respect your decision.
2006-11-18 12:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Dale H 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
guys who arent wanting anything to do with you...its a turn off but a guy marring a virgin would be outstanding
2006-11-18 12:44:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To alot of males, yes it is. But you have to do whats right for you. I admire that quality in a women. Stick to your guns.
2006-11-18 12:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋