is happiness findng oneself or finding love?? or is it all a sham!
2006-11-18 04:29:02 · 11 answers · asked by Shawn J 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Most psychologists would tell you that there is no such thing as "true love." Rather, we tend to choose people which match up with our needs. And a person that is growing over their life span will change, therefore their needs will change, therefore the person that is required to meet those needs will change.
2006-11-18 04:36:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happiness does not only result when one finds true love, I think that happiness can come in all sorts.
Happiness can be achieved from a day spent with your family members, perhaps a picnic, a dinner get together- interaction with people mainly results happiness.
Happiness can be resulted from loving yourself. I'm not saying that you should be selfish, but loving yourself means that you should take care of your body, don't harm it, having a good health can bring about happiness as being healthy and not having to worry bout health woes can bring about happiness as you are free to do things that you always wanted to do.
All in all, happiness is up to you to make it out what it should be like.
Fret not, I'm sure you'll find your own happiness.
2006-11-18 04:39:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find happiness in peace of mind, which, I suppose, can also be fairly defined as finding oneself. "True love" is a very subjective term, consisting of a sometimes, tumultuous, but, always, ever changing dynamic. I much prefer the former definition which carries with it a more constant connotation.
2006-11-18 04:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by ElOsoBravo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the benefits of true love cannot be realized if you don't find yourself first. If you depend on a mate to 'complete' you, you are burdening that person unnecessarily and to no one's advanyage.
2006-11-18 04:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people seem to find themselves too soon and don't get over it. Finding true-self is more important first I would think... unfortunately many people are delusional.
2006-11-18 04:46:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 17:16:25 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that first of all you need to find yourself and then to find true love.
2006-11-18 10:20:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not have TRUE LOVE EXTERNALLY WITHOUT LOVING YOURSELF FIRST. Love is not a sham it is The MOST powerfull force in the uni-verse.
2006-11-18 04:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by iamonetruth 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Being happy with myself.
2006-11-18 05:10:02 · answer #9 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you using love as a verb? one can find one's self bu loving others. Real love can pnly come from knowing Jesus Christ as their personal savoir.(agape)
Falling in llove is (eros) CComes from the greek arousal. excuse my spelling, but I'm ina hurry.
2006-11-18 04:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋