my boyfriends mom is nuts about him proposing to me... shes always bringing that up..
hes 28 and im 21
2006-11-18 04:26:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mothers are all about family & they think being married is the ultimate. But marriage is not for everyone.
2006-11-18 06:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good thing if she would like for you to marry her son. That shows that she thinks a lot of you. To answer your question, mothers want their sons to be taking care of, loved and be in a happy and healthy marriage. She probably doesn't want her son to bring children into the world without a wife nor does she wants him to be alone for the rest of his life. I think it is a good thing.
2006-11-18 12:37:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shay 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a mother of two sons I wanted each to find a woman who would be a good partner in life, bring them love, happiness and provide me with grandchildren. The fact that she wants him to propose to you tells me that she feels you are a good match for her son. That doesn't happen often. :)
2006-11-18 12:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by mizging2003 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ah, mama's want to make sure there's someone who will always look after their baby boy. Apparently she sees something in you, that makes you seem like a good candidate -- maybe she sees a bit of herself in you, and wants to make sure that he keeps that connection. She may be wanting to be a granny too, or maybe she's starting to worry about getting older, possibly passing on. Perhaps she wants to be sure that her boy has the things she provides him in case she should be called to the next life. Who knows. She could just be friendly. I tell ya, it's been my experience that moms are the opposite though -- "nobody is good enough for my baby boy." So you should be flattered!
2006-11-18 13:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by amuse4you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a mom of four boys and I can honestly tell you that we want them to get married so we can quit taking care of them. Then when they happen to find a girl that we approve of, who we think is marriage material, we are pressuring that poor boy to death. It's either that or sit on pins and needles and wait to see if the "good" one gets away.
Take this as a compliment honey...his mother really likes you and that's a good thing. He's also 28....it's time!
2006-11-18 12:37:08 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because most mothers wan't grandchildren trust me my mom was a little pissed when she found out that my wife and I don't wan't them.
2006-11-18 17:12:49 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you to get married so that she knows he is well taken care of....... Consider it a good thing................she could hate you guts and be constantly tring to break the two of you up.
2006-11-18 12:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by DEBBY'S BABY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she wants another woman to care for her son the way she would and wants grand babies!
2006-11-18 12:35:12 · answer #8 · answered by just_me_1955 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wants grandkids because shes lonely and wants to have someone to love.
2006-11-18 12:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by Jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋