Is there a special way to make love to a woman and get her pregnant or its just mere luck? been trying 4 1year

Question

Is there a special way to make love to a woman and get her pregnant or its just mere luck? Me and my partner have been trying for 1year. I satisfy her sexually because I have got what it take.You know what am talking about, but that positive result is what we`ve been looking out for. Help ME

Answer 1

Have sex three times a week.

Having regular sex is the best way to get pregnant. Couples often try to time everything perfectly for ovulation but do not have sex when they think they are not ovulating. It is true that sex that is not within the time of ovulation will not result in pregnancy. However, because women do not always ovulate when they think they will, having sex three times a week will help to a woman cover her bases, so to speak, and not miss an opportunity to get pregnant.

2. Use an ovulation prediction kit or fertility monitor.

Using an ovulation kit to predict when you are ovulating will improve your chances of getting pregnant. For many women charting or other methods of ovulation prediction are too confusing. Ovulation prediction kits work by reading LH surges prior to ovulation. They are relatively easy to use and are generally accurate for predicting ovulation. Fertility monitors, such as the Clear Blue Easy monitor, are also a worthwhile investment if you would like to get pregnant faster. Fertility monitors are similar to ovulation prediction kits in that they read changes in LH but they also read changes in other hormones and don’t require any guesswork for couples. They are easy to use and will tell you when the best time to get pregnant is.

3. Have sex before ovulation (not after).

Sometimes couples get confused about the best time to have sex in relationship to ovulation. You have a small window of time each month to get pregnant. After a woman ovulates the egg will survive approximately 24 hours. Sperm, on the other hand, will live for up to three to five days. This is why having sex two to three days before ovulation will increase your chances of getting pregnant. Don’t wait until the day you ovulate to have sex. Your partner’s sperm will last longer than your egg and you don’t want to miss an opportunity by waiting.

4. Don’t rely on the Calendar method for predicting ovulation.

A lot of couples have heard to have sex around day fourteen of your cycle. This is based on the calendar method and assumes that you have a regular 28-day cycle and ovulate mid-cycle. Although this is better than just picking an arbitrary day to have sex, it is not a very accurate way to predict when you ovulate. Many women do not ovulate on day fourteen and knowing precisely when you ovulate will help you time intercourse better. Ovulation prediction kits, looking at previous months bbt charts, or watching for body cues will help you to determine when you ovulate.

5. Charting may not be the best way to predict ovulation.

Charting is great for tracking your cycle but it does have disadvantages. By the time you can see ovulation on a bbt chart, you have already ovulated. It is good to chart so you can track your cycles, see if you ovulate the same time each month, and also so you can look back on your cycle and see if you timed things right. But if this is your first cycle trying to get pregnant or if you are not ovulating at the same time each month, an ovulation prediction kit would be more helpful.

6. See a doctor before you start trying to get pregnant.
Make sure you are in good health and have had a regular check up from your OBGYN or medical provider. Untreated infections, sexually transmitted diseases, or poor health can affect your chances of getting pregnant. Its good to see a doctor as well as start taking prenatal vitamins prior to trying to conceive.

7. Don’t smoke, drink alcohol, or abuse drugs when trying to get pregnant.
This may seem like common sense but many women do try to get pregnant while smoking, drinking or using drugs. Smoking, drugs, and alcohol can affect your fertility. It will also affect your unborn child. It is important to stop smoking or using drugs and alcohol before getting pregnant and not wait until you find out you are pregnant.

8. Have enjoyable sex.

Sometimes when couples are trying to conceive, sex becomes a job or function of reproduction and is not as enjoyable. Plan a romantic evening or try something different to spice things up. How you are feeling sexually may factor into your chances of getting pregnant. Some researchers believe that having an orgasm during sex increases your chances of getting pregnant. For women, the spasmic movements of orgasm will help pull the sperm into the uterus and for men a better orgasm may increase the man’s sperm count.

9. Have sex in positions that keep sperm inside the vagina longer.

The missionary position is a good position to use when trying to get pregnant. Avoid positions where the woman is on top. Gravity will allow sperm to leak out with these positions. Also try placing a pillow under your hips to help tilt your pelvis and keep the sperm in longer. Don’t get up right after sex. Try to relax and allow the sperm to stay in the vagina as long as possible.

10. There is no such thing as trying too hard to get pregnant.
Most couples get pregnant within a year of trying. If you have not gotten pregnant within a year consult your doctor for advice.

Answer 2

Women are only fertile for 24-36 hours out of every cycle. If a woman has a 28 day cycle thats only one day a month that she can get pregnant. Hitting that day can be really difficult, and even for young healthy couples it can take a year or better to get pregnant.

If however, you guys are finding it extra difficult, it might be time to consider getting checked out. She needs to make sure she's ovulating and cycling regularly, and you need to make sure you're not firing blanks or dummies.

She can also try buying some ovulation test strips from ebay. Medical whole salers sell them in packs of 50 for about 20 bucks, which is generally enough to do two cycles and get a good idea of when she's ovulating. Not all women ovulate on day 14, and not all women ovulate the same time every month. Ovulation tests are something you can try on your own before a doctor.

If it fails again and you're just not getting pregnant your only real option is to get tested to see where the problem, if any, is.

Answer 3

Sometimes the mere anxiety from both of you might be causing you not to become fertile. Relax, have fun and dont think about procreation. Deep penetration is usually a good method. There are books out there on this, just google it. Good luck! Having fun while doing it is not a bad thing. ;)

Answer 4

To get pregnant you must have sex on a day that her eggs are being released.

After the 3rd day from the day that menses started put a thermometer into her mouth and check her body temperature every morning before she starts turning in bed. The best time is at about 4 a.m. Maintain a chart. You will find that on one day the body temperature drops from 1/2 degree to one degree. This is the day that your eggs are being released. If you want to get pregnant this is the day that you must have sex. You must ejaculate on your inward thrust so that the sperms will shoot deep inside.

After having sex she must stay in bed for about 30 mins with her knees bent up with a pillow under her buttocks so that the sperms will not pour out - to enable them to travel up.

You must save your sperms in the testacles for at least 3 days before sex to enable them to mature well to do their job.

Answer 5

I have a tipped uterus and needed to roll over on my stomach after sex. I was pregnant that month after I learned my problem. Also it may not be YOUR problem. My period were irregular so I had to go on fertility pills for one of my kids. Also if she has any scar tissue from cysts or std's, endrometreosis ect... She may need to be checked out. It wouldnt hurt to get a sperm count yourself, wear boxers and stay away from high direct heat. Eat your wheaties hahaha

Answer 6

i don't know if there is a special way to make love but what i do know is that you and her need to see a doc. because my husband and i have been trying for 3 years and nothing yet but we have been seeing doctors but they haven't found what is wrong but if you can get to it asap you should. Good luck and may God Bless you with a child just pray and you will see you blessing like i am doing praying is the answer GOD BLESS YOU AND GOOD LUCK by the time you know it you will be blessed with a baby.................. my best wishes to you and your partner !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

Marry her. Next thing u know...shes pregnant. Happens.

Answer 8

try having her lay down after making love with her it will up your chances of getting pregnant.

Answer 9

You need to have intercourse the day before and day of her ovulation to increase your chances.

Answer 10

give it a rest