Well we've known eachother for 2 years and she was recently in a bad reltionship and now she is scared everyone is going to hurt her. I really love her but I don't know what to do
2006-11-18 03:52:59 · 8 answers · asked by helpless 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Action speak louder than words. It 'll take a long time for her to trust again, she'll always remember what it felt like when she was hurt and it will always be there, just be there for her and treat her right.
2006-11-18 03:57:21 · answer #1 · answered by Ray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient. Having been hurt takes a long time to get over. Fear is something that only love and commitment can conquer.Talk to her, have your friends talk to her. Let her know without a doubt. But make sure you mean what you say when you say it. Don't play games with her.And if you truly love her give her the time she needs. She will come around.
2006-11-18 12:01:45 · answer #2 · answered by whateverhohum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, take things slowly and prove it, by being there for her when she needs you and not rushing her into somthing she is afraid of. Time heals all wounds.
oh..and don't smother her..that can scare her away if shes not ready yet
2006-11-18 11:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by David B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way you can convince her that you won't hurt her. She has to make that decision. Just continue to use good judgement, be patient, and be sensitive to her needs.
2006-11-18 11:55:56 · answer #4 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be sweet to her let her know you love her say you would love to spend all your time with her and tell her she is best thing that has happened to you in a long time just stuff like that
2006-11-18 11:55:26 · answer #5 · answered by *meggie* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, you just have to sit her down and tell her how you honestly feel about her. say exactly what you said in your details. she should understand
2006-11-18 11:55:41 · answer #6 · answered by TrueHappiness<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...you need to continusly tell her and prove to her that you would never do anyting to hurt her...untill she believses you...that will take time(believe me i know cuz that has happend to me to
2006-11-18 11:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Hannah.Elise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be there for her, you cant force trust upon her it has to be earned.
2006-11-18 11:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋