I couldn't lose that habit. Talking bad about somebody else, and sometimes backstabbing your own bestbuddies feels great yet guilty. I really wanna lose that one, and commit to God and myself and be a better and brighter person. Help me...
2006-11-18 03:41:36 · 5 answers · asked by Jo K.L. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
THEN DO IT! If you dont want to be like that then CHANGE. Its really not that hard. You just have to have will power. Instead of saying something mean, DONT say anything at all, or replace the mean things with something NICE. That will feel just as great. People will respect you more if you talk GOOD about your own friends rather than bad. When I hear people talking bad about their friends, I wonder what they say about me behind my back, and I also wonder why they would be friends with them if they dont like them...
2006-11-18 03:45:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hey,
I know how you feel, recently I've been gossipping, and I've never gossipped before in my life.. I feel really bad as well, though I gossip about my not friends.
Good - luck! And if you re christian pray to God to help you, or talk to someon you really respect about this problem.
And remember the first step is admiting you have a problem, but make sure you don't get stuck at this same stage forever keep growing and realizing what you're doing.
=)
Karina
2006-11-18 04:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot call yourself a true friend. Apoligize to everybody, hurt or unknowing, then stop. Only say nice things or something like:
"I know he can come across as bratty, but he's a really good guy."
NOW GO
2006-11-18 03:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by Answers (but who has them all?) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
habits are hard to kick. its human nature to gossip, but know ur limits.
2006-11-18 03:47:16 · answer #4 · answered by gweneth lynn paltfeir 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
To be honest..i'm surprised that you still have friends!
2006-11-18 03:49:11 · answer #5 · answered by KED 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋