Hmm okay so... I got this friend who asked me to talk to her and then when I talked to her she got mad... so I got angry and decided to ignore her despite our history together for the past two years...
should I forgive or move on with myself?
2006-11-18 03:12:54 · 14 answers · asked by silvs 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If the person asked for the talk, then they should have been prepared to deal with someone's, namely your's, advice and view points. I tell people what's on my mind and have no regrets. I do ,however, think before laying it out for them to digest. We are all entitled our viewpoint and opinions. If those are based in truth, fact and experience, the recepients so be mature enough to evaluate your input anf formulate their counterpoint os concurr with you. You should not have gotten angry. I would have brushed it off and let them think about.
If this is a relationship you both care about, give her time to simmer in her own juices of maddness. You may think about apologizing for getting angry, BUT not for statements made.
2006-11-18 03:27:02 · answer #1 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did she want to talk to you? Why did she get mad? If it was something ridiculus (which you may not realize until later) I would make up with her. If she has been your friend for a couple years than she must be a pretty good friend. What was so horrible that would require forgiveness or moving on? Just think about it, if you really like having her as a friend, try and make up. If you don't think you can repair what you had, you can always move on. Just remember that life is too short and you need to live your life today as if it weren't going to be here tomarrow....
2006-11-18 03:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by blondieblue98 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she wanted to talk,but didn't want an honest opinion. Now that you know this about her, the next time she asks to talk, just listen and ask her what she feels she ought to do. There are a lot of people out there like this. They SAY they want an answer, but they really don't want to hear the truth. All that we can do as friends, when we realize this about them, is to listen politely and just ask them more questions so they can resolve the issue themselves.
Hope this helps!!
2006-11-18 03:19:58 · answer #3 · answered by oracle1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends. think about all the good times you have had together and ask. Do I really still want to be friends with this person. If so talk to her and apologize. If not then forget and move on. Personally i dont like to loose friends so i would apologize.
2006-11-18 03:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by shelby94rock 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive. Its hard to make true friends so if you have a history with her, its probably worth salvaging. She might have just been having a bad day!
2006-11-18 03:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 years is not too short.You know each other.All of us get angry or mad at sometime or another.In many cases,we feel sorry about that later.I can see you thinking soft.That is great.Thinking to forgive is a great ability.You can go ahead.
2006-11-18 03:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by KRMD 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should totally forvige giving up a 2 years relation ship is worthless think about what your gaining and loseing...girls don`t l;ike it when boys something mean about clothes or hair you should tell them they look nice and you sound to nice and you still want to be friends with her so talk to her!
2006-11-18 03:16:56 · answer #7 · answered by Brandy A 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, that depends on how good of friends you are. If you are really good friends, then I wouldn't let an argument break the friendship.
2006-11-18 03:20:15 · answer #8 · answered by Karma 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone need to just grow up here become a little mature and move forward
2006-11-18 03:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by chattylady47150 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forgive, and never get into persons dispute!!!
2006-11-18 03:15:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋