Me and my best friend of a year are over i guess. Shes Really mad at me for alot of reasons. She was the first person i met when i moved here a year ago. Shes a year younger and we've both changed SO much she use to b a tom boy now everyone says shes the hottest girl in her grade. On myspace im no longer her top friend and now im like the last one on the list. We had so much fun togather and i cant belive its over. Now shes all buddy buddy to this girl 2 weeks ago she was saying was a s***. Im so confused how do i get over her? we were like sisters!
2006-11-18 02:48:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe your not looking to get over her.. maybe you should talk it out and try and fix things before u actually says its over.. yea me and my best friend get in arguments all the time but hey best friends fight.. u all are not always goion to argree on the same things.. but maybe you have tried to talk to her.. if u have then maybe just work at it harder and if things dont work out then maybe move on.. and try and find a new 'best' friend.. but before u do that jsut try adn work it out and maybe try to like this other girl shes hanging out with.. but hey dont feel bad.. if she is a true friend then she can find away to forgive you for what ever you did.. but if shes not then just forget about her move on.. just pick up the phone and give her a call... and if she dont answer maybe try going to her house or something if that dont work just move on.. hope i helped!! Good luck.. hope everything works out!
2006-11-18 02:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Kayy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have a lot of 'friends' through your school life. It's very normal for friends to come and go in your life. I will tell you that I have been out of high school now for 30 years and I have 2 friends that I still keep in touch with from there.
In your life, you will have many acquaintences, but your true 'friends' you will be able to count on one hand and have fingers left over.
2006-11-18 10:54:33 · answer #2 · answered by Sunnee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it help i recently had a bad falling out with my best friend, we were like sisters for 6 years then her hubby to be came into the picture and it was down hill from there. 2 weeks before the wedding she let him drop me off on the side of the road by myself and they left me there alone to walk the rest of the way home. i havnt talked to her since.
it takes time, and a lot of getting used to, find other friends to hand out with,
good luck and smile big even though it hurts
2006-11-18 11:16:37 · answer #3 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look that happend to me before agshaly we were like sisters we lived in the same neighberhood we were in the same class but suddendly in 3rd we wern`t in the same class and she sid lets NOT be best friends anymore lets meet new people amd i was like ok and i went crying and then i just moved on with life i met new friends and well it wasnt the same friendship she didn`t live in the same neighberhood but just move on with life
2006-11-18 11:08:00 · answer #4 · answered by covergirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you got to ask yourself one question what have i done to make her pissed. And well people do grow apart. But a real friend doesn't. That real friend accept you for who you are unless he or she wants you to change for the better.
2006-11-18 10:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by timid004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this has always been the case...its very tough to find true frnds....im going thru the same...so i no how it must be for u...for me....my so called best frnd left me 3 weeks ago...n is spreading rumours abt me....all over school...calling me "characterless"!!! so u c.....people in this world are "meany"!! js be yourself....and she'll surely realise what a person SHE is.. and what YOU are....
..tc
2006-11-18 11:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats tough sweety, go and try to talk to her and try to apologize to her for the things she mad at you for. that might work. but me and my bestfriend stop talkin for a while but now were're the best of friends. cant nothing get between us. that can happen to you
2006-11-18 11:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by SweetRedz05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋