please help me ... i need help ... i need advice !!!
im afraid to talk to him in person
but when we chat, im not afraid at all ...
2006-11-18 02:14:45 · 7 answers · asked by LittleNikStAR 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
during school, while he's playing basketball with his friends, some of my friends start pushing me and grabbing me to get near him ... but im always too afraid ... please help
2006-11-18 02:19:31 · update #1
Do you mean you are not afraid to talk to him online? That's very common because it's so much easier to talk to someone online. You don't need to read body languague and all that complicated stuff.
I suggest you give yourself positive reinforcement. Remind yourself that hes just as nervous as you are. Once you talk to him after a little while it will get easier and easier. Smile a lot and don't try to be anything else but yourself.
I think the nervousness kinda adds to the excitment of first dating.
2006-11-18 02:20:52 · answer #1 · answered by Alisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to have the same problem. thats because wen u talk to him online, u feel more comfortable because hes not looking at u, which usually makes girls nervous. if u think that u will act silly if u talk to him or are emabarrased, then that means he will never know how you truly feel. but, if u think theres a spark between th two of u, go for it. approach him indirectly about it. hope that helped u a little.
2006-11-18 02:21:08 · answer #2 · answered by PreTty in PiNk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't talk to him in person how you going to date him. He has to ask you out and teach you like a queen and please don't think i am man because i saw my no photo thing. But thats the best i can do if you can't be your self don't waist your time. If you need more advice i am alway checkin my email.
2006-11-18 02:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by revelationwannabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should write him a note and if he doesn't reply them when you are chatting with him bring up something that never ends or something that takes awhile to figure out and maybe in school you could talk about it a little more in person..... good luck
2006-11-18 02:27:14 · answer #4 · answered by steffie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just put together what you want to talk about before you talk to him. that way you wont have that awkward silence. and ask him questions about himself,sports he plays,anything he likes to do. people love to talk about themselves and then he does most of the talking and you appear interested. only having to nod or ask another question then and again.
2006-11-18 02:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
come on ... be confident in urself.. i know u can do it hes not a man eater....he wont say u something like that ... plz get more bolder ... and bost urself up .... jz think abt wat u have to say to him at ur meeting and practice it and than blah speak to him ...
2006-11-18 02:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u need to plan ur conversation & then talk to him in person. u wont be nervous because ull no exactly wat 2 say.
2006-11-18 02:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by abc123_11580 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋