kay i dated this boy last year three times, each time lasting about a week...then we got back together this year, and were a lil more serious...he thought we would be together all year, but actually we only lasted three weeks cuz he was following me around everywehre and drove me crazzzy...we are still very good friends, and i really really love him (as a friend)...
during p.e. he usually throws basketballs and other balls at me pretty hard..he says he needs to get his "revenge"...he throws lil stuff at me outside of p.e. sometimes too, and sometimes he takes a camera and flashes it in my eyes so i cant see for a while...he also makes jokes about taking his dads gun to school and shooting himself and me..i dont really mind all this stuff, he says i deserve it so i guess i do..the problem is my friends get reallllly mad at him!!!
how can i make them see that he really does care about me, and that i deserve it all? i dont want them to be mad at him, i dont want him getting hurt
thanks!!
2006-11-18 01:41:49 · 5 answers · asked by Cricket 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
oh btw i know this was a long question and hard to follow..but i am single, the guy and i broke up like a month ago
2006-11-18 01:58:22 · update #1
be careful and keep an eye out for him. he actually might be intending to hurt you. as for your friends, just avoid him for awhile and hang out with them, because they are obviously worried about you.
2006-11-18 02:31:49 · answer #1 · answered by guess2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god, you are absolutely insane. If you continue to have this attitude, you are going to soon be making excuses for a guy who hits you "I know he hits me, but he only does it because he really loves me, and I deserved it - I brought home ground beef with 15% fat instead of 7% fat". COME ON NOW! Stop being a doormat and just tell him to quit throwing stuff at you. Better yet, be single - because it sounds like you need to be alone and find your self worth. If you had self-esteem you wouldn't allow yourself to date someone so immature.
2006-11-18 09:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either dumb or stupid! Which one is it? I would take what he says very seriously and tell your parents, principal of the school. With so much school violence you are taking a risk. You don't want your parents going to your funeral do you? An abuser doesn't care about his victims and that is exactly what he is dear. Wake up! The boy obviously has mental problems.
2006-11-18 09:46:13 · answer #3 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
anyone who would hit you who has only known you for 2-3 years wouldn't be that nice to you if you kept it up.
2006-11-18 09:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by Nichole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them that he is just playing around.
2006-11-18 09:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by melinda_taft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋