my girlfriend told me that she doesnt want me to hang out with my friends anymore who is also a les. But to the fact that i have known them since prep schoo, i cant just do thatl. And everrytime i go out and have a good time with them, we end up having a fight. im so confused. she told me she does not like them. My friends does not know about it.
2006-11-18 01:23:56 · 12 answers · asked by Riz 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
She must have a reason...that's something you need to ask...go from there
2006-11-18 01:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by babo1dm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she doesn't like them. Maybe she feels a bit threatened by you all's relationship. Is you friend hot? That might make her a little feerful. She may feel that she has to compete for your affection. Show her that she is number one. Bring her along with you and your friends the next time you go out. Or, next time you're schedualed to go out with you friends, make a point of turning them down because you want to be with her.
2006-11-18 10:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ha Ha! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You girl sounds very jealous. Don't give up time with your friends just because your girl doesn't like them. My gf has friends that I really don't care for, and when she wants to hang with them, I don't tag along. But I also don't get upset about it either because she had these friends before we ever met. I have friends she doesn't like, and I hang with them sometimes and my gf doesn't get mad. Our relationship is very good that way.
2006-11-18 09:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should try talking to her. let her know that them been your friends since preschool and there is nothing she can do about it. just dont be mean be honest. she is your girlfriend them are your friends there is some line that should be made there. she cant get mad at u for hanging with them they was there before she came and theyll be there when she decides to leave.
2006-11-18 11:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by ki-ki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might need to get a new girl if she dosnot like you friends that are close to you then thats a part of you she dose not like if you really want to know why she hates your friends just ask her.
2006-11-18 11:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by sk8erhjk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find out who is more important to you.
2006-11-18 09:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. He made me give up my friends.
2006-11-18 09:51:14 · answer #7 · answered by John16 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either get a new girl or get new friends...What do YOU want?
2006-11-18 09:27:07 · answer #8 · answered by boots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just jealous, time to get a man
2006-11-18 10:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new girl
2006-11-18 09:27:44 · answer #10 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋