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I've got a friend and shes always trying to control my life like its hers and telling me what to do and calling me stupid if i do it wrong but apart from that shes a really good friend and dead nice and everything but i'm sick of trying to do everything the way she wants me to, but if i object she just tells me off again!! i dont wanna fall out with her, can u think of any other way i can sort this out?

2006-11-18 00:52:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Friends

thnx for answerin but u dont know what shes like really. she's nice and funny and everythin and it's not that she bosses me about, its more that she criticizes what i look like and tells me what to do, and i'm not her friend because i have to be, i have lots of other friends, but if i do get mad at her...i always end up being her friend again anyway!

2006-11-18 01:02:35 · update #1

thnx 4 answerin but i reli mean it she is a gd m8 its jst one fault she has so i dont wanna fall out with her over it so any other ideas...? i already sed she wont listen wen i tell her it annoys me!

2006-11-18 01:57:15 · update #2

15 answers

Woa, next time she tells you what to do say 'i appreciate the help/advice but i know what i'm doing' =)

2006-11-18 00:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by jade t 2 · 2 0

I hav a frend like that and i soon shut her up wen she took it too far by calling me ugly and stupid it upset me so much i gave her a piece of my mind you should tell thins so called friend how you fell firmly and i'm sure she'll stop but the best thing to do wud be 2 stop hangin with her she may be a good m8 at times but that's not good enough for you or anyone
GOOD LUCK

2006-11-18 01:38:23 · answer #2 · answered by burn baybee burn 2 · 0 0

Some people need to feel useful and think that they're doing you a favour by giving advice all the time.
The thing is you'll never learn to make your own choices whilst she's making them for you.
Stop telling her your problems. If it's not just problems she advises you on, tell her that you feel it's time you took responsibilty for your own life and while she can make suggestions, you'll make your own decisions from now on.
It may come as a relief to her. Sometimes you get stuck in a role you don't want to play and controlling someone's life can be quite stressful.

2006-11-18 03:12:15 · answer #3 · answered by Fifi L'amour 6 · 0 0

I'm afraid, she's a control freak and she knows she can get away with it, with you!

It's insecurity basically.

I don't think there is anything you can do because you have set a pattern between you.

I think, if I were in your shoes, I'd fall out with her (not in a nasty way but ignore calls, etc.) for a while. If she values your friendship, she will be upset and eventually ask why you are ignoring her, then she will be ready to LISTEN to you.

Good Luck

2006-11-18 01:06:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0 0

no longer by oral intercourse. you may basically grow to be pregnant if the sperm of the guy come into touch of the female organs of the ladies human beings. there is not any way the spern wouud survive down contained in the tummy and then contained in the time of the disgestive music. Theres alot of acid down there.

2016-10-04 02:36:42 · answer #5 · answered by fritch 4 · 0 0

I've got a friend just like that and the way to deal with that is to do what you have to do. say it in a nice way but tell her in someway she needs to listen. Don't get affected because of that. and you know what we are three in the group. before my friend always gets mad at me and say I'm weird then the other friend of mine doesn't talk and doesn't want to interfere so one day the friend and my other friend fought my other friend said my friend was bad! so i was her new friend best already and my BEST friends ex friend said sorry and we 3 are friends alright but now my old friend is just like normal,acquaintance! just do what you have to do!

2006-11-18 01:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by Gurll:) 2 · 0 1

Pretend that you agree and then do your own thing anyway. If she challenges you, defend what you have done with the logic that you thought through. She will respect you for having an opinion.

2006-11-18 05:37:43 · answer #7 · answered by helen g 3 · 0 0

I cant understand how she can be nice and wonderful and then boss you around, I think she is not wonderful even if she is nice to you at times, tell her to jump off a bridge and find a new friend,

2006-11-18 00:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0 1

you have to tell her. be honest but diplomatic and stay calm don't make a fight out of it. If she doesn't listen and still orders you around just refuse reasonably until she listens.
good luck x

2006-11-18 00:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0 0

Stop doing what someone else tells you to do.
Find another friend.

2006-11-18 00:58:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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