I'm getting ready to move and I will have a negative balance account balance so no so much will I be able to buy gifts. I've never been too out there at Christmas, usually a gift for each family member and a few friends. Here's my list...
4 sisters (ages 11, 19,24,27)
boyfriend, (20)
dad,
mom,
step mom,
step dad,
2 very close friends,
1 not as close friend,
4 nephews (8m, 7,8,8)
Any suggestions?
2006-11-17 21:17:36 · 12 answers · asked by huggskisses20001 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Christmas
If you have enough funding to buy holiday cards (no more than 10 dollars for a box of 24), you could give one to each person listed.
On a separate piece of paper, you could write (or print in a script font) a special note that shows you have the best intentions (for example: "although I have no means for a material gift this year, in my heart is the best of all wishes sending you holiday cheer").
Put the note inside the card and write a personal note or just sign your name (a personal note would go further). Put it in the envelope. Wrap it and tie a bow around it. Yes, remember that "packaging" stands out and you don't have to spend a mint on it. Of course, they might think there is a gift card inside, but at least you took the time to "pretty it up."
Your friends and family will understand your financial plight. After all, its not about the gifts, its what's in your heart.
Happy holidays!
P.S. I did this myself one year - I had just had the twins the month before Christmas and could not afford to spend anything on anyone. Only one greedy person on my list was not happy with the card and my note, but that person wasn't included on my list the next year when I did have funds!
2006-11-17 21:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by terryoulboub 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your family understand your situation then buy them something for the christmas table a display or even the christmas turkey
boyfriend as nice photo of yourself in a frame
friends what about asking them round for a evening meal in you new home and make it an early christmas
not so close friend perhaps some smellies
the 4 nephews make them up a special christmas stocking with goodies they like fruit and sweets then have a big family hug this should mean more than any gift hope this helps
2006-11-17 23:31:54 · answer #2 · answered by kentishlass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why I am such a " bah-Humbug" Its all about the gifts...jeez.
I had a converstion last year during christmas with 2 men from Nicaragua. They laughed at us because of the way we celebrate christmas....They even said it was all commercial. they said in Nicaragua everyone is so poor all they do is cook what ever they can and everyone goes from house to house visiting and laughing in the streets. I was actually jealose !
My 2 children are just starting new lives both married now and I have a grand son. I tell them dont buy for me if it will make you sruggle with your budget. I would rather have them have peace of mind and dont want them to feel like they have to get mom a preent...even if they cant afford it. Jeez, I could never live with myself if i knew they were taking food off their table to buy for me. So many, many people do this and it does take food off their tables!
You are 14.....be a good child. Go to school and get your education, be helpful to mom and dad and Tell everyone you love them and give them a hug. If thats not enough for them dont worrie about it.
2006-11-17 23:07:44 · answer #3 · answered by docjingles03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for starters, I would only get the boyfriend a gift and everyone else a card. You could bake some pumpkin bread. It costs very little and it is a nice gesture. If your family and friends are upset that you didn't get them gifts, well then they are greedy and celebrate Christmas for the wrong reasons anyhow.
2006-11-18 00:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by visionsofforever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got a video camera? Make her a little video telling her how much you care for her. Or maybe if you have sisters/brothers or other close relatives or friends you can get them to help you make some sort of short movie-it could be anything. It could be a comedy, it could be all of you singing some funny/goofy song you wrote for or about your mom. Something simple like that could be more special than her than anything else.
2016-05-22 00:31:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your love and best wishes. Draw a card or write a poem. Or say you got no money so don't give me anything if you don't want to feel cheated. I mean really, is this what Christmas is about?
2006-11-17 21:25:22 · answer #6 · answered by Dr Know It All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We did this one year. Make certificates for each person to redeem. Offer them a service that you know they will like. For example, offer to wash and detail your dad's truck if he has a new truck. The list of ideas is endless. It has more meaning if it especially applies to the person you give it to.
2006-11-17 21:43:42 · answer #7 · answered by chad t777 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i dont think its worth giving all gifts they will understand you are unable to give this year. Or you could get a part time job to afford things for them.
2006-11-17 21:19:55 · answer #8 · answered by Southie9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only resources you need are blank paper and colored pencils/markers/crayons (pick 1 or use all 3). Instead of giving out store bought gifts, you hand out "I O U" cards. For example:
I.O.U. 1 FREE NIGHT OF BABYSITTING! ..................................... I.O.U. 1 FREE CAR WASH!........................................................... It works. Spruce up the front of your card to make each one special. Make sure to make each "I O U" card is something that each person can benefit from it's value. Good luck kiddo!
2006-11-17 21:56:17 · answer #9 · answered by JOHN 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
the best thing i could get for x mas is my family together i think they will understand about the money thing.
2006-11-18 03:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by sk8erhjk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋