Does this mean, as I am very stunned by this statement, that I am fake or that love is in itself fake? What should I think? It makes me feel ill to be assaulted in this way...but I can do nothing.
2006-11-17 20:22:26 · 17 answers · asked by Thx 4 All The Fish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I once told someone i loved them and they said i don't know what love is. three years latter their bagging me back. They will know what love truly means, what goes around comes around.
2006-11-17 20:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told this person how they have made you feel? Perhaps if they knew how hurt you are then they could explain more fully what it is they are trying to say to you.
You say you can do nothing and whilst it may be true that you can do nothing to change their mind you could try to talk to them and clarify the situation - this would at least make you feel a little better.
Possibly they feel, for whatever reason, that you don't know what love is and anything you do feel is therefore not real in their eyes - more like an infatuation or a childhood crush; or maybe they feel you are just saying this to gain some sort of attention. Perhaps they don't believe themselves worthy of your love, or it could be your love is too intense and is scaring them so they try to dismiss it in this way.
Whatever the reason for a person saying such a thing it must make you reconsider your feelings towards them? Perhaps you should reconsider if this person is really worthy of the love of a man such as yourself! Good luck!
2006-11-20 09:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
initially in case you adore him you received't call him boy. you assert my boyfriend or significant different. then you actually want to have a good time with that the guy is scum if he suggested he loved you and did not advise it. basically have a good time with the actuality that for the first time a guy believes in you and loves each thing there is about you. there is this humorous quote from the 2001 movie The Brothers Staring Shemar Moore and Morris Chestnut, at the same time as between the moms (performed through Jenifer Lewis) is talking to each of the different halves and girlfriends and tells them "you comprehend at the same time as a guy loves you at the same time as he permits you to have his very last hen wing". The extra I though about it the further it made considering that if the your Boy pal looks at you with activity, would not concepts protecting your hand in public, or has a very unemotional family individuals and had the braveness to say i love You, then he skill it. relax and enjoy you adore. Now the question is do you adore him... because it does take an excellent type of potential and bravado to admit something like that. Love him with all you heart and believe him. CONGRATS on your love. LATEZ
2016-10-16 09:25:43 · answer #3 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this all they will say? Ask them to support their statement by elaborating as to its meaning. Maybe there's something you should be made aware of. On the other hand, perhaps their love is conditional, and conditional love is really fake love.
2006-11-17 20:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, do something that is. Take your love somewhere else. I would do this immediately because I don't care if you were giving this person just a small dose of kindheartedness, if they can't appreciate what it is you're giving now, please don't expect for them to appreciate it later. This statement sounds to me like a cold ploy to get you to give more.
Good luck with this!
2006-11-17 20:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by fiteprogram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is LOVE fake? LOVE isn't fake. What is fake is HATE...for hate destroys.It is EVIL (from D=evil).
Love is real,patient,kind,true,light in a dark place,warmth, closeness,>>>connected<<<,invinceable,long-suffering,etc.,etc.,etc.
LOVE vs HATE. Make a list and under each list,place the words YOU feel from EACH. Which list BEST describes you??? ICY
2006-11-17 20:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by ICY 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That person must have seen something from you for her to say that. Think about it. Have you say something lately? Have you behave diferrently? But if you really love the person, try to win her back. Show her that you really adore and love her.
2006-11-17 20:34:39 · answer #7 · answered by louie s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds 2 me like sumthg ave said b4, tho i said it in the heat of an argument. just b considerate but don't give away urself in doing that. u r not fake.
2006-11-17 20:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by Another face in the crowd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she come up with her statement. She might just be kidding. Maybe deeply she knows you love her.
2006-11-17 20:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That person is attempting to over rule you, maybe even empower you. If you keep this person in your life, you will eventually be his/her slave and this person could beat you to a pulp and you would allow it. Get away from that person, I think.
2006-11-17 20:39:27 · answer #10 · answered by grannywinkie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋