Most of the nights she does not feel like making sex. So we do it may 2/3 times in a month. We have a very good relation in all other respect.
Is there any medicine, is it a hormone problem. We are at thirties.
2006-11-17 19:45:25 · 7 answers · asked by R Rumman 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
alot of women lose interest in sex, it's completely normal, and there are prescriptions for that. a friend of mine uses a cream her doctor gave her, and she swears that she is always interested in sex since using the meds. maybe you could suggest other things though, like toys and such.
best thing is to try to arouse her without being obvious. when sitting on the couch together, start by rubbing her feet, then her calves non-chalantly working up to her inner thighs, and then just stop so she doesn't automatically think that's what's on your mind. massaging the inner thighs usually does the trick
2006-11-17 22:04:46 · answer #1 · answered by TaureanAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if you have children. She is probably just worn out. Some of the problem may be how you "love" her without sex. When I was married (I'm a widow) there was no foreplay or loving, i.e., hugs, tenderness, etc.. The only time he was loving was when he wanted sex. It totally turned me off. I said many times I didn't care if I never had sex again, but I graved being made love to. It's just a thought. There's no medicine and it's probably not a hormone problem.
2006-11-18 08:31:56 · answer #2 · answered by Blondie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm about the same way. We have a 3 yr. old son together, I have a 13 yr. old daughter, and he has 2 sons 10 and 12. I just stay tired and stressed and short on time. I rarely get a time when we don't have a kid around. My youngest has his days and night mixed up and my husband works 3rd shift. It's not really that I don't want to it's just hard to find a time when we can really enjoy each other without worrying about the kids.
2006-11-18 03:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by sweet.pjs1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she isn't working hard or having 2 to 3 kids with her. She need help with her arouse. But if she working hard with kids, you can't expect much from her. I am having sex 1/2 time a week and i don't really want it i doing it for my husband. He didn't know this. I'm a hard working woman i work 12/15 hours aday 6 days a week with 3 kids , two home and two business to take care of so you man should understand us woman.
2006-11-18 04:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by 40somes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.First u check whether u are giving full love to her if no then u should love her not only for sex but all the time
2.find out whether she loves u or she had any afair before marrage hope she is good and clean
3.find out whether she has any pain when u work on her
4.find out whether she has got toomuch of work and tention all the day due to her over work tention or hard work at home controlling children
5.find out whether she has a bad expenience with man before marrage (if u have married)
6.try to show her some semi adult movies if she likes once in two days
2006-11-19 05:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by akshay_vignhesh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try consulting a pharmacy. I have heard of horny goat weed being a sexual stimulant but I am not sure if that is suitable for women. Another herb your wife could try are the indonesian herbal tea or pill specially for women. I am not sure of the side effects yet so it's good to find out more about these products available in the market first.
2006-11-18 08:56:04 · answer #6 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no all normal thats how some of us r dont worry arrouse her make her want it tese her
2006-11-18 03:54:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋