Last night i was in the pub chatting to a fella who i know, but my mate hates him, and hates me talking to him and had a go at me in the pub in frount of evryone, i was mad and went over ans asked what her problem was, we started rowing and ended up scrapping, got thrown out of the pub, she wouldn't talk to me,then she text me sayin lets talk, im so p***t of with her, but is it me, or was she abit out of order? we were both drunk and feel really bad as it happend in frount of evryone, and it is our local!
Should i make up with her?
2006-11-17 19:40:21 · 12 answers · asked by red devil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think that as she is your friend you should make up, you were both drunk and she is your mate.
I reckon that the two should meet up and talk about this tell her that she is your mate an nothing will ever come between the two of you, but you also have other friends as well, and while you accept the fact that she doesn't like the guy you were chatting with. You are not going to stop talking to him, and as she is a friend she shouldn't expect you to.
Make up with her as good friends are hard to find, and maybe the two of you should consider going into your local and apologising
2006-11-17 21:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were drunk, you were both out of order and you would be really silly to spoil a friendship over something so daft. She's made the first move so you don't even have to swallow your pride to make up - it might help if you both go to the pub together and apologise as well - everyone does stupid stuff once in a while, it's not that big a deal.
2006-11-17 19:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by f0xymoron 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course make up with her, if she will. As Lisa said, a mate will stay with you as blokes come and go, at least until you meet the ONE and probably far beyond.
She has made the first move, Babe, get with it, don't waste a friendship. Besides, both of you were in drink, and to be honest, the two of you would not have gotten into it and been kicked out if either had used a bit of judgement.
So, don't waste a friendship, get with it, make mutual apologies, and get on with being friends.
2006-11-17 20:01:02 · answer #3 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If You Feel That You Did Nothing Wrong Let Her Know And See If You Can Patch Things Up . Life Is To Short Give Her A Big Hugg And Tell Her How You Feel . Good Luck To You !
2006-11-17 19:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll go with everyone else on this one, ring her today and make up. It may not seem like it now, but probably you will be laughing together over all of this in a few weeks time! I have to be boring now and just mention is it a good idea to watch how much you drink in future? It wouldnt have happened otherwise. Go ring your friend!
2006-11-17 23:06:27 · answer #5 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So since when does she determine who you can & cannot talk to?
Alcohol lowers your inhibitions, it makes you say the things you would love to say but just can't whilst sober! She had no right to have a go but then you are as much to blame for retaliating! I can understand your reactions though, it would've made me mad aswell, she doesn't own you, you can talk to anyone you want.
Talk to her & tell her that you respect she hates this guy but that gives her no right to dictate to you! Then make up with her & go out for lunch today!
2006-11-17 23:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by C Greene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to talk about what made her so mad in the first place, and no man is worth a friendship. You either gotta agree to disagree on this one or fall out completely and go your seperate ways.
2006-11-17 19:42:54 · answer #7 · answered by Scatty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alcohol makes some people act worse than rabid animals..
You were both drunk, dont let it ruin a friendship...
its easy to buy another drink, but not so easy replacing a lost friend
2006-11-17 19:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 17:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men come and go true friends stay. Phone this morning and get this drunken mess sorted out... You friend is only looking out for you sometimes others see something in people that we don't want to look for... Life far to short to fight and argue!! Go out tonight and have a girlie nite!!!
2006-11-17 19:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋