I never go out with other people or people I consider 'friends'. I only have acquaintances, no one to really hang out with in reality. I don't have a girlfriend either. But the thing is I'm OK with all of that, it doesn't really have a negative affect on me, at least not in my perspective. My family is great, and I am doing good in school. From time to time it eats at me, but then I just realize its stupid to feel bad about not having friends or a girlfriend when other things are going well. It's not that I don't want friends, its just that I might not necessarily need them. Not going out eats at me too, like I might not experience enough of life. But I'm not depressed about any of these things. Am I weird?
2006-11-17 18:26:19 · 8 answers · asked by jeg2315 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
no your just self sufficient. look at james bond he doesnt have any friends too but he doesnt seemed to be depressed haha anway ur not wierd different people treasure different things.
2006-11-17 18:42:24 · answer #1 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not weird. The only people that I hang out with are my girlfriend and my mom, and I'm fine with that. But you may miss something in life if you stay to yourself all the time. I never would have met my love if I didn't get out there, and you may not either.
2006-11-18 02:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by Jess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly? yes. I realize that you say that you are ok with all of this. But understand that you are only ok with this because it is all that you know. Trust me that life is so much better with people, because people are the most essential person in your life, and when you realize that another person, another human being just like you actually wants to be with you, a wholenother person. To most people reading this seems like nothing but it is actually a bug deal. and even though you are happy now, you will be so much happier with people and with friends, it will be a new state of nirvana
2006-11-18 02:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by janitorc7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not weird, you've convinced yourself that you're independent enough to be happy with being on your own. But it's a lie, one that you've got used to.
I used to be the same then I met this person who I worked with and we got along for a bit. That was when I realised I did want other people in my life and I fought to make that happen. And I'm damn happy I did!
2006-11-18 02:44:20 · answer #4 · answered by Maggs 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way man. I jsut go to the gym play ball and go to school. I don't do movies, arcades, video games or girls and im happy with it. I think my Bible helps me though. There are times when i crave all those becuase I've had them before. But ya dude it's cool
2006-11-18 02:51:57 · answer #5 · answered by bboyballer112 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no honey your not weird but you do need to experince life a little bit more outside of your family. try to get to know "acquationce" on a deeper level take it to a freindship
2006-11-18 02:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by trblmmmy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are not weird my friend,oh how about 15 yr-old girl?
i am not kidding it might be helpful to have friends who listen to u and ur problems.
if u wanna be my friend this is my e-mail:"nour_ih@yahoo.com"
2006-11-18 02:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try make friends in here...
2006-11-18 02:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by yu g 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋