I figured i would ask this question to see what the married women on here do to lose inches for their husbands. I am already pretty thin but he saw this really pretty lady in lingerie that had a small waist size and he said he wanted me to look like that. I guess since I had my baby I still haven't shed all the weight, though most of it I have. What's the best way I can lose these inches so I can make my husband very happy? He said he would even buy me that lingerie if i trimmed my waistline :)
2006-11-17 17:15:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get your lazy butt off the computer and stop making up untrue questions and get a job, your just lazy and stupid
2006-11-18 15:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 4⤋
Well, first of all I think that you took that very well, if my husband came home and told me to lose 2 inches because he was attracted to someone else in a magazine I would of kicked him to the curb. If he really loves you as his wife, then he should never have said that to you, that was very ignorant and arrogant of him. I am sorry but why should you change for him to make him happy? You are still the person that he married and you just had a baby I can't believe that you would even consider this for him. I am sorry if I sound a bit harsh, but I just feel that was an insult to you.
2006-11-17 17:31:39 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're not offended by this?
I'm sure the lingerie he wants comes in many sizes. Tell him to lose two inches off HIS waist.
That's just not fair. He should be doing his best to make you feel like the wonderful mother, wife, woman that you are. No matter what your waist measurement is.
Be proud of who you are and what you look like not only for your own wellbeing but as an example to your children in the future.
2006-11-17 17:20:38 · answer #3 · answered by britt 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
So you are not overweight or anything, he just wants you to fit this idea of perfection he saw in a magazine? I think you should turn round and show him a picture of a guy with an amazing six pack. Then tell him you want him to get one of those and if he does, you might buy him some sexy Calvin Klein undies!
Honestly, if you start trying to please your husband in this very superficial way, he will find more things to pick on. You have to nip this in the bud and put a stop to it. Tell him, you are happy how you are.....you've lost weight, you are feeling good about yourself and you are healthy, that is what matters and he should be happy with you how you are. If he doesn't like it, well he knows where the door is...............................
2006-11-18 13:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but THAT WAS SOOO UGLY OF HIM TO SAY THAT TO YOU. What is he thinking to all of a sudden come home and say (Paraphrased)" honey i brought this lingerie book home and i really want you to wear this stuff but i think youre a little to fat to wear it now, so could you lose some weight so i can get what i want and not care about your feelings at all"?
I would tell him, "if it wont look good on me now the way that i look, maybe it will look better on you. So take that magazine and shove it up your ***"
Miss ,i dont know you but, im sure youre beautiful just the way you are!
2006-11-17 17:25:06 · answer #5 · answered by Crissy 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Man he has some BIG Balls to say that. I would not even THINK of saying that to my wife....unless I wanted to die! LOL Well I think that you should go get a catalog with men's stuff in it and say " Gee hon if you lost that tool 24 pack and got a 6 pack you sure would look good in that leopard skin G string"
If you are happy with your body don't let him make you feel bad about it. If you want to lose the weight for YOU then that is different. Don't forget that as we age....and especially after having a baby a women's body changes. And I am sure that HIS body has change too....and if not yet....it will trust me *S*.
Best of luck
2006-11-17 17:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by oldman 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
To get rid of the 2" you could just cut loose the ball and chain around them. Over my dead body would I loose any amount of weight because my husband bribed me! Love is not a number. Lust may be, tho. The only way I would choose to lose weight is if I chose to get healty (which is for damned sure what he should be concerned about) and feel better about myself. What a jerk. If I were to do something good for myself, like get healthy, I'd buy myself the lingerie! Hmmmm, what would he do for you? Quid pro quo honey. THAT is what marriage is about.
2006-11-17 17:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by my2cents 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
ok nicely if it relatively is for an adventure that's springing up in 5 days, then possibly you may only look such as you misplaced a million.5 inches.. it relatively is called a corset :) you may artwork on the long term lose of the load after by utilising eating healthful, understanding, etc. yet while u choose the thank you to look thinner without making urself ill, get a corset. stable success :)
2016-10-15 16:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much does your husband way? Find out and lose that much. You dont need to be treated like a object. If your marriage is based on apearence then dont bother waiting till his midlife crisis for him to cheat on you with a younger women. You can lose all the wait, you cant stop getting old and if thats what he is about he will cheat on you anyway.
2006-11-17 17:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Rich 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Why should you change for him? You can lose the weight, and shrink your waistline, doesn't mean you'll keep him happy. Anytime I tried to change for anyone, they ended up leaving eventually. Be who you are, enjoy your beauty, make him accept you for who you are a beautiful and wonderful person. Hey, does he have a beer belly, has he lost some of his hair? We change as we get older... don't even think about changing for him.
2006-11-17 17:27:49 · answer #10 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Little Angel are you for real??
Don't let your hubby treat you like that by saying you need to lose weight!!
He is criticising you saying you are not good enough the way you are
just say to him if he loses 2 inches of weight of his waist he can tell you how to do it & then maybe (just maybe ) you will do like wise!! NOT
& then ask him not to talk like that to you anymore
2006-11-17 17:25:51 · answer #11 · answered by ausblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋