should I stay with him or not, he pays half of the rent, does not help me at housework, he shouts and argue with me and swear at me and threaten me that he will leave me, how can I financially afford if he leaves?
2006-11-17 16:52:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just leave him... if you do not find peace from your marraige, then y should you live with him? instead of living in that misery, you can court a bit of poverty for some time.
i mean that u were independant before u married him rite? become independant again. do not fear about financial problems. though it will be a bit tough in the beginning, it will get alright.
all the best
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2016-05-17 00:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how relevant his diabetes is to his infidelity, but if you're unhappy, and he's threatening to leave, I think it's best to get out. Downgrade your life, rent a room somewhere, etc. It's always possible to live independently as long as you have a full time job.
2006-11-17 22:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by the_memory_of_ashes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Irregardless of circumstances in your life, be it good or bad, wife should give honor to your husband, and do him good and not evil all the days of your life. You said he is having friendship with another woman, but that doesn't mean he is having affair with her. If you want to see changes in your husband, let the change first begin within yourself. Because in a relationship, you have to understand that what you give is what you receive. Love begets love, and hate begets hate.
2006-11-17 17:22:32 · answer #4 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say there is no reason to live in a relationship where the guy is yelling at you, (unless you are beating the !@#@ out of in his sleep)if you are afraid of him then there is something in your relationship that has changed, if you admit it to yourself your feelings for him have already started to die.
If you can make it on your own get out, if you can't get another job a better job and save what you have of yourself.
On the off chance that he would get counseling maybe he would consider that.
2006-11-17 17:04:41 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does being a diabetic make it ok to cheat? I don't think so, I have heard diabetics are moody and hateful sometimes but not an excuse or reason to cheat,you'll manage without him if he leaves.
2006-11-17 17:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by frustrated 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u decide to separate, u have to take all these things into account. That is precisely the reason for so many unhappy couples still living together.
2006-11-17 16:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 07:11:56 · answer #8 · answered by freudenburg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do you afford if he stays? What are you doing to yourself is there a women's shelter in town you can get back on your feet and you will find a better life
2006-11-17 16:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Cheryl J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off your butt and support your self. if he only pays half the rent get a smaller place that is your own . you will feel so much better, with out all his anger and threats
2006-11-17 16:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋