I broke up with my ex almost 3 weeks from now..because things between us were not working out so then he too agree. but he told me that someday sooner or later he will be finding me and when that time comes he will never let me go like what happened to us..
Now should i still hold on that he will be coming back to me?? or should i really let go of my past but then i really love him.. and we now dont have any communications.. I feel all these emptiness in me when he walked out of my life the day i let him go...
2006-11-17 16:17:57 · 11 answers · asked by swEety29 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You need to decide what is best for you. What are the reasons you two broke it off? Are they mendable? Will things change when you two get back together? I've never gone back to an ex. I've thought about it a few times but for me, if what we went through was enough to break us up in the first place, who's to say it won't just happen again? Take a break from each other. If a month goes by and you two still feel like you belong together, give it another shot!
Just don't stay with someone because you are afraid to get back out there and love again. There will always be someone else. You have a big enough heart to love again. Good Luck with your decisions. Only you can make the right decision for youself!
2006-11-17 16:24:44 · answer #1 · answered by Chavahleah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go. If you end up together someday (which he doestn' see to deserve you in the first place), but if it does happen then ok, it happens. If you let go, you are giving yourself a chance to discover someone who will treat you right, love you truly and never ever let you go like he did, not even once.
Its painful what he is doing to you, I have been there. And if I could go back and do something different, Id let go sooner than what I actually did.
Its normal to cry about all this at first, when you are letting go it hurts. But its better to hurt for a little while than to get stuck with a guy like him and hurt forever.
When you are sick, you have a choice, to get stuck with a needle and hurt a little or to not get stuck with it and let your sickness hurt alot.
It is the same for a guy like him, you dont watn to get stuck with him and let him keep hurting you. just go on and let go, it will hurt but not as much as it would if you didnt let go.
I am not suggesting that you never forgive him, all I am saying is that you are awesome and you should not let anyone take advantage of you in this way. Let go, move on girl, BE HAPPY because all of us girls are so totally worth it!
2006-11-18 00:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by geniusflightnurse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my friends is in love with this guy and they keep breaking up. She's living in the past and she's not happy at all. Her friends are tired of seeing her cry and hearing her complain. She's holding to tightly to the past when she just needs to let go.
You need to ask yourself are you really ready to wait for someone to grow up? My advice would be to live your life and if he's still looking hot then go for it. Don't wait and ruin a good chance of meeting someone more than perfect for you.
2006-11-18 00:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person once told me that if your are truly supposed to be with them then the two of you will come back together. If anything that is something that should be said. If you truly think theres hope atleast.Things will change and you will move on. You two will grow apart. Be with other people and not care what he thinks.
2006-11-18 00:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I just broke up with my boyfriend and still waiting for him to call me back. I am feeling the same things that you are feeling. I don't know what to say to you, sorry. It looks like we are on the same boat.
2006-11-18 00:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by Amisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the past and live your life already! Look to the future.
2006-11-18 00:20:31 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the reasons why you broke up in the first place.
2006-11-18 07:29:55 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HIM GO! IF IT IS MEANT TO BE HE'LL BE BACK SOMEDAY. ME AND MY HUSBAND OF 8 YEARS DATED FOR A FEW MONTHS AND IT DIDN'T WORK OUT, A YEAR LATER WE ENDED UP BACK TOGETHER. IF YOU LOVE SOMETHING LET IT GO, IF IT IS MEANT TO BE HE'LL RETURN.
2006-11-18 00:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by MOMOF3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love doesn't walk away from you then come back. it sticks out during the rough patches.
all he did was make you feel guilty.
2006-11-18 00:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait for love when you can just go find it elsewhere.
2006-11-18 00:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋