i've been really bored n lonely at school n home. i kno lota ppl but they nvr seem 2 wanna chill wit me wat up wit me??i feel lik im unwanted n it hard 2 wake up ever' day n live life wen i feel lik that . hard 4 me 2 do wat i need 2 do
2006-11-17 16:14:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Find something that makes you happy as an individual that is not dependent upon others. That is the only way that you'll be able to avoid loneliness or the fear of loneliness: by realizing that you don't need others to be happy. Do something meaningful and challenging; consider your purpose in life and how you can fulfill it. People are a burden anyhow and only make you feel lonelier than when you started.
You will feel the purpose of life and never be bored or unmotivated once you know what it is that you can do with your life to produce the greatest happiness for yourself and others.
It would also be cool if you used English rather than IM-speak.
2006-11-17 16:23:57 · answer #1 · answered by Clueless 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Join different groups outside of school or in school (after school). Other people will get to know you better and see what you are like outside of school. Keep yourself busy so you're not so bored all the time. You'll meet lots of people and you'll actually be happy when you do get some quiet time to yourself.
2006-11-18 00:20:11 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Dude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. You could join clubs or other stuff like that, but if your really not in to those sorts of things, you will lose intrest. I hope you get through it. I'm still going thru it.
2006-11-18 00:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by valerie v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont bother , Ur not between the right people , try to hang with the people U love not with the people U try to love !
2006-11-18 00:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are they doing instead? Maybe your tyring to get them to do things they don't want to. you could possible join them at whatever there doign?
2006-11-18 00:22:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make at least one friend and share ur feelings with him...
2006-11-18 03:10:09 · answer #6 · answered by @rrsu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start reading books, or watching sports, or chatting in irc, or just answering questions., or watch commedy movies.
2006-11-18 03:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by Shoeb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋