Just curious. It seems to happen to a lot of people including myself.
2006-11-17 15:52:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
yeah, i don't plan on telling her, just wondering who all is out there besides me
2006-11-17 15:56:27 · update #1
something similar for me..but in my case a co-worker whom we've became quite close, i.e good friend but not exactly best friend (my definition of best friend is like those from school all the way til now kinda friend)
anyway it really is painful..im not known to be les/bi so i cant really come out in the open..would be devastated if the friendship ended just because if i told her i liked her.. sigh
2006-11-17 15:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by acnemycin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you value the friendship you will fight your emotions and keep that inside of you. NOTHING hurts worse than turning a friendship into a feeling of not wanting to be around the person anymore. Sex can do that. Friendships last if theyre meant to, lovers can become friends, BUT friends RARELY become lovers and REMAIN that way. They generally end up ruining the friendship.
2006-11-17 23:55:41 · answer #2 · answered by . S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have and I know I will take it to the grave. The whole experience is a part of me like a limb. If I had to do it again - I would be more aggressive - more honest.
2006-11-18 00:21:30 · answer #3 · answered by johnatplayct 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! I think it has happened to most gay guys. It hurts like hell. I hope it gets easier as society evolves and gayness is more and more accepted and open.
2006-11-18 00:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol oh i have!! been there done that . it's the worst cause you care for them so much and yet at the same time you don't want to cross the line of friendship. so you sit there with your feeling and it just drives you crazy.
2006-11-17 23:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by scared2fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... he is my best friend... and we even sleep together.
Oh well, but he is straight. And it is quite painful when I learned that he had sex with his girl.
2006-11-18 02:07:20 · answer #6 · answered by Travis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friend? no, i can't imagine not knowing the sexual orientation of my best friend.
2006-11-18 04:58:43 · answer #7 · answered by Spyder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋