For someone who was sexually abused, it is normal or wierd for someone(me) now years later, to get real turned on with a guy and then suddenly get real disgusted.
2006-11-17 15:42:56 · 4 answers · asked by Amanda J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i mean when "hooking up" with a guy
2006-11-17 15:43:24 · update #1
I think in the heat of the moment you get really turned on and then when it comes to the act, maybe something is triggering repressed memories or the act itself turns you off. I think, if you haven't already, you should talk to a professional. You might finally be able to let it go and have a sexual relationship. (I'm not trying to make light of the situation)
2006-11-17 15:46:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexual abuse is probably the most harmfull thing that can happen to a human being. No one would expect you to be able to get over such a trauma on your own. It's a wound that may never heal. If you haven't gotten help in the way of professional counselling, then go for it.
2006-11-17 23:51:34 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past haunts a lot, I know.
But if you are turned on by a understanding guy, believe me, he will take away all of your worries.
Anyways, seek professional help, ok.
Good Luck
2006-11-17 23:54:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that to be normal. I think that maybe you get turned on and then maybe in the back of your mind you start to think about the past.
2006-11-18 00:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋