When we told me the relationship was over, he was right 'cos we didn't understand each other, but 15 days later he put a photo of the two of them, almost naked, in the msn, I break in tears, and 15' later he blocked me. Since that day I am so sad, I can't take the idea out of my mind that he is with other woman, and that she is his girlfriend...thinking he never wanted me to be his! I can't control my thougths, my dreams, my feelings...and I don't know why destiny put him in my way and make me saw him everywhere I go! I just want to forget him, but I can't, he is still in my heart, in my dreams, he is still wherever I go, although he is with another girl, although he doesn't love me! And now, I wonder and I ask u, would he change his personality with her, would he try her like he tried me? I'm desperate, I'm the victim of a broken heart...
2006-11-17 15:16:49 · 10 answers · asked by Julikaf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many who go through breakups tend to put the other person on a pedestal. Everything they did wrong in the past becomes perfectly okay and we even tend to make their problems our fault. Don't forget... he's a person just like you... with all the flaws that any human has. He's going to have his up and his down times just like you. He may have a relationship (or two or three) and there is no guarantee that any of them are going to last.... same as you. Concentrate on yourself and even small things that make you happy at this difficult time. Look in the mirror everyday and say: he wasn't worth having a great person like me.
2006-11-18 01:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by mosaic 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 19:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Gisela 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoooh! this was a month ago. Lighten up!
Ask yourself at least 5 reasons why you think you loved him. Take the reasons and look at him as a cruel person.
List 5 reasons why this break-up could be useful. With these ten+ reasons decide which are stronger and effect the relationship more.
Rate 1 out of 10 (ex. break-up good: he chews with his mouth open is probably a 2 or 3) add it all up into a fraction which will look like this:45/50 the higher the numerator the more you felt about that side.
If it ends up you still think the breakup was a bad idea try getting over it by staying offline for a little bit and just chilling with friends. Buy a new CD that relaxs you or makes you feel good. Stop remembered how it felt when he kissed you!!
2006-11-17 15:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadness can quickly turn into revengeful thinking. Try to remember the best revenge is living well. Think about that. You will be a stronger person for this and use whatever negative feelings you have as a resource. By this I mean, a day will come when you will be happy and in love again. Likely this guy will at some point want to hook up with you again. Therefore, as stated; "The Best Revenge Is Living Well"...the more appealing you make yourself and successful the more of an as!s you will make of this guy!
2006-11-17 15:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you loose a loved one, there is a prieving process. Recovery is a slow and emotionally painful one.
The grieving process can be less painful if you try to understand that loss and grief is a natural part of life. You should learn to accept you loss and believe in yourself.
Believe that you can cope with a tragic happening. Let you experience be a psychological growth that will help you deal with future stressful events.
Just as when someone dies, it seems like after all that you do to keep them alive, they just slip right out of you hands. It is these times when we must realize that everything in life is not going to happen our way.
Hope this helps!
2006-11-17 16:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by bkdaniels2006 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there (except it was my wife who went astray) and a lot of other folks have, too. It hurts pretty bad, as you know. But it gets better when you realize that the person who left you was obviously not right to begin with. Someone who would do that just isn't put together right and you will find someone eventually who is.
2006-11-17 15:22:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thank god god the loser is gone and u didn't waste anymore time with a liar and a cheater, your heart will mend , that guy was bad for u ,and he will do the same to that girl,you will find a good guy one day that will treat u with respect and really love u and be loyal to u, u deserve the best ,never try to hang on to a guy that would do that to u, god bless u and good luck
2006-11-17 15:25:39 · answer #7 · answered by cc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow yourself to grieve, as it sounds like you are doing and then get over it. You will find someone much better in the future. You and he shared a moment in time but it was not meant to be.
2006-11-17 15:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you were not married to him, my husband did something similar to me and I still love him and I forgave him but I'll never forget...I guess that's what keeps me from accepting him back...
2006-11-17 15:19:10 · answer #9 · answered by Ladeebug71 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I will pray for you , Remmember you are never ever alone . Ever !
2006-11-17 15:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋