Guys, how many girls have you slept with in your life?

Question

Guys, how many girls have you slept with in your life?

Along with this, I'd like to know your age, if you consider yourself someone who sleeps around a lot, were they relationships or just hookups, and also if you still have any emotional attatchments to the girls you had sex with. Dude, I just want an honest answer.

I am not looking for an ideal answer, really, i just am trying to figure out guys, and I was wondering about this. I guess what I'm looking for is also, how guys feel in a relationship. Guys get a rep for sleeping around a lot and I hear somewhere that the average # of girls a guy has slept with by age 28 is 20.
I know there are guys that do this (and more) and guys that don't. I guess the reasoning behind it is what im looking for.

Answer 1

I love the lack of answers!!
8, and I'm 20. I deffinately consider myself to be a guy that sleeps around alot.
HOWEVER. This is not something I am proud of. I regret alot of the things I've done, and although I enjoy sex as much as the next guy, I'd much prefer fewer partners for longer periods of time.
Do you mind answering something? Whats the ideal answer you're looking for?

Answer 2

Good question. Sometimes I wish I had this problem, I've always wanted the 'right' woman, but the older I get the more important it seems. I think this depends upon you and the kind of person you are. Let me assure you of one thing, one night stands pretty much suck, everything is better when you at the very least like/care for and feel comfortable with a woman. I might be concerned of a mid-life crisis, and if you feel the urge to sleep around now, I would think it WOULD come back to haunt you. On the other hand if the love is true, deep and you both work to keep it good and fresh, I don't see why it couldn't work out.

Answer 3

I think a lot of guys hook up/have sex with the most girls from age 19-25. The reasoning behind this is usually bragging rights and of course, it's not like we don't like sex. But most guys usually want to settle down at some point. I'm 28 and slept with 24 or 25 girls (I'd have to count fingers) most were one night or several night stands. Most were between 21-23 (in college), same for most of my friends...when we first start going to bars. But at this point it's not a good idea to go out and try to hook up with girls, not only for the obvious reasons of STD's, pregnancy, ect. But to find a respectable woman, I have to be respectable as well.

Answer 4

I'm 32 and it's been about 20 to 25 women. I wouldn't say that I've slept around a lot. Most of them were women I had actual relationships with. A few were friends that we just decided to play and see what it was like. I've never picked anyone up for a one-night stand. I'm now happily married and don't have any regrets about my past. Wifey knows all about me and I about her. Can't have a decent relationship if you're not honest.

Answer 5

I waited untill I was 16 for my first. I was pressured a little earlier in life, when all my friends started to loose their "V plates".. I would have to say, since then I might have put it around a little bit.. I have also been to one orgy..

Numerical wise, im on 6/7 women, dont remeber the exact number; i dont really care to be honest. Oh by the way, im allmost 18..

I have never really had a relationship, that lasted more than 2 days.

I think it was possible that all I was looking for a was a "*&^% buddy" and only that..

I would like to be able to settle with someone for a longer period of time, but... something just doesnt seem right about being tied to one girl at my age.

I have had many emotional attachments.. but i soon learned to let them pass, and sure, they did.

So, next question... what you up to this weeked..? lol.

Answer 6

I'm 28, slept with 34 people for sure. Most were one nighters in college. Several more that I can't remember hooking up with but woke up naked next to them. They don't count toward the 34, though, as I am unsure if it happened or not (collar pull).

Answer 7

I am a 23 year old virgin and I am proud of it although in personal experience I have been both respected and ridiculed like a museum exibit in equal measure. Most of the pressure to have sex with a number of ladies comes from social pressure. The male members of the family gave me the mantra "Every holes a goal" and girls also seem to stick to this role model too as a measure of masculinity. Although I admit there has been times where I have just wanted to grab anything I could; in the long run I want a stable and loving relationship and don't want to lose my virginity in a way in which I would regret it.

Answer 8

guys no different to girls just trying things on 4 size ... don't worry about numbers ..personally need some sort of connection 2 do the deed but that comes with time ... don't always know why things don't work out u women can be harsh 2 ... hey tomorrow another day

Answer 9

9 and im 20. I had a big break when I had a serious accident so didnt do it for 2 years, and since than only 1 (my ex gf) . Im kinda missing it - i havent even touched a women now for 5 months!!!!! And its not outa choice, I think I lost my mojo since breaking up. Oh well - birthday, xmas and new years coming up - loads of partyting and meeting the ladies.

lost my v at 13 aswell - which is pretty early.

Answer 10

Mid age.True answer.It started at 19.One woman, about 25, was on me at mid night.I was at another persons house by chance,a distant relative.It was the break.I have kept about 68 women awake till date.Still going on.Want to complete complete 100.Except very few there was no emotional back drop,it was all to satisfy body needs.