i noticed after I ejaculate when having sex the whole sensation and/or rush goes away, like after it happens I do not feeling like do anything....is that normal?
2006-11-17 14:56:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
thats what happens after cumming dude.
2006-11-17 14:58:48 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Somebody 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mastering Masturbation
Most men suffer from a condition known as over masturbation. Masturbate with a woman's orgasm in mind, not your own. In other words, take your time: Work up to 15 minutes. Bring yourself close to the point of no return, but don't let yourself ejaculate until time is up.
The old Squeeze Play
If you're overheating during masturbation or sex, stop and squeeze right below the head of your penis. Apply firm pressure with your thumb and forefinger and focus the pressure on the urethra--the tube running along the underside of the penis. The squeeze technique, developed by those icons of sex therapy, Masters and Johnson, pushes blood out of the penis and momentarily decreases sexual tension and represses the ejaculatory response.
Finding the Edge
Masters and Johnson broke the process of sexual response into four phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution. It's the plateau and orgasm phases we're most concerned with, as most men crash through the former, straight into the latter. The trick is to slow down and recognize that there's a spectrum of feelings throughout the process of sexual response and to recognize your own point of ejaculatory inevitability.
Rate your sexual excitement on a scale of 1 to 10. Try keeping yourself at 7. If that means counting to three and picturing Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day ... so be it.
Sexercise
Do your Kegel exercises. A Kegel is an exercise that helps tighten the pubococcygeal (PC) muscles of the pelvic floor. Both men and women have them, and you can become familiar with the muscle group by cutting off the flow of urine and then starting and stopping it repeatedly.
Once you have the exercise down, practice your Kegels anywhere: at your desk, behind the wheel. Tighten your PC muscles and hold for a count of 10, then release. Practice in sets of 10. Stronger PC muscles will help you exercise ejaculatory control when you approach the point of inevitability.
Press don't Thrust
Tease her, taunt her: Press the head of your penis into her clitoral head. Linger in her vaginal entrance, where the most sensitive nerve endings are. When you do have intercourse, focus on small, shallow movements that penetrate the first 2 to 3 inches of her vaginal canal. Press your penis against her G-spot. You'll longer sex if you're not thrusting vigorously.
Show Some Manners
Ladies first, gentlemen--and I'm talking about more than just holding the door open. Keep your woman happy. Women have an innate capacity to experience multiple orgasms. When you help her to her first one, it relieves you of some of the sexual performance pressure to please and the psychological anxiety that feeds into PE.
2006-11-17 22:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by deadman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. After orgasm the body goes into a recovery phase where sex is not desirable/possible. Let your body reset before trying anything more. Some guys can continue after ejaculation, but most guys are done after the O.
2006-11-17 22:59:27 · answer #3 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha yes that is definitely normal. You'll feel like doing something again (if you want to) after a certain period of time. Some guys are ready after 5 minutes, some 20, some just wanna go to sleep rather than go again. Either way you're fine.
2006-11-17 23:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the stage of sex in which you ejaculate is also known as an orgasm but can be referred to as a climax. And like all climaxes it is followed by a period of rest. So, once your orgasm is done, your penis will typically go limp and you will feel more or less drained. Yes, some guys seem to be able to go at it multiple times but most of us need to give it a rest for at least a half hour before we go at it again.
2006-11-18 22:03:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tiger for 20 seconds!!
2006-11-17 22:59:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup; that's why they joke about men drifting off to sleep after sex.
2006-11-17 23:52:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men are like that so I have been told by all of your all girls need to learn to roll over and start something again,don't roll over and go to sleep cannot keep a woman like that.
2006-11-17 23:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by Douglas R 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's just God's way of saying that its time to take a little nap.
2006-11-17 22:59:11 · answer #9 · answered by Al 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
thats completely normal.. no need to worry..
just feel free to relax after that..
-kay
2006-11-17 23:00:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋