Tree days ago a girl kicked me in the balls for fun in school; she and her girlfriends laughed at me for a long time, filmed me with the phones, then walked away and just left me there on the floor like a dog. I felt so violated and humiliated! It was very embarrassing for me to tell my Mother, but I did, and she said I should get used to it because probably it will not be the last time!!! She was actually smiling!!! I was going to tell her it still hurts, but after that I just lost my words. What do you think about this? Why are girls like that???
2006-11-17 14:15:46 · 18 answers · asked by ytrewq7m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
As you can tell from my name I have 2 children, one of which is a boy. I can't believe your mother said that and acted that way. Being kicked there can cause major damage. When my son was in first grade there was a little girl that thought it was funny to kick little boys there....My son ended up having surgery. If I was your mother these girls would not be walking back into the school with out some major punishment. I don't know why some girls are like this, but you need to be on the watch, you do not need anymore kicks to your private area. I am so very sorry this happened to you, but these girls will have their day, mark my word. May not be tomorrow, but one day. This does upset me greatly about your mom also.
2006-11-17 14:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by mom of 2 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I think that is ridiculos that your mother did not take this incident more seriously. I dont care how sill girls can be or mean guys can be no woman has any right to kick you in the balls. The only man that desreves that is if he trying to rape a woman. I think you should report it to the principle if nothing else to avoid it happening again. If you were my son, I would be mad as hell and have a little talk with those girls myself and their parents. For ur mom to say it probably wont be the last time, is sad. I think u should tell the principle and have them confiscate the girls phones as proof of what they did to you. It may not be the most masculine choice or way to do things but at this point i think ur balls are most important and in more danger than ur pride. Dont let it pass without letting them know how u felt about what they did, how ever u choose to do it.
2006-11-17 22:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by exceptionallyexceptional 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
fortunately not all girls are like this. You were right in telling your mom, and I wish she had of been a little more sympathetic to your feelings. If your mom isn't willing to do anything about it, you should speak to a councelor at school. I am not sure who else you are comfortable talking to about this. The schools around here have a zero tollerance to violence, this is included. Such an action can result in a suspension for those girls. It could have actually caused you lasting problems. My cousin's husband was kicked in the balls when he was younger, he's 40 now, he was told by his doctor that there was enough damage done that it severly reduced his sperm count to the point he would never have children. Him and my cousin were completely amazed when they found out they were expecting a baby, but she had her little girl last month.
I hope you get this straightened out.
2006-11-17 22:24:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
First of all, not all girls are like that! Those girls are girls you need to stay away from if you want to ever want to Father children. Second, go back and tell your Mom that you're still in pain, talk to your Dad or another man to find out if the pain you have is normal, better yet call a doctor or clinic and ask if you should be scene. Good Luck!
2006-11-17 23:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by DB 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
"Girls" aren't like that. These particular girls are sadistic freaks. And no offense, but your mother doesn't sound like any great prize, either.
Is your father around? Grandparents? Is there anyone you can turn to for help? The school counselor? I know it's hard to talk about something like this, but these girls need to be stopped. You probably aren't the only person they have treated this way. And the next person they taunt and tease may decide to do something radical about it, if you know what I mean.
Is there any way you could take martial arts lessons? You need to be able to defend yourself, and the martial arts can teach you how to defend yourself without necessarily hurting others. If your mother/parents can't afford the lesson, maybe you could find a way to earn money (mowing lawns in the summer, raking leaves in the fall, etc.) so that you can pay for them yourself.
Good luck. Sounds like you are in a tough situation. Just remember that not everyone is mean-spirited and hateful like those girls (and your mother).
2006-11-17 22:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by dreamweaver.629ok 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Man I cant believe your mom didn't get mad. I can see why you were at loss of words. That is violating you. I don't think young girls realize the seriousness of this. You could be damaged for life. Go tell your mom its still hurts you need to go to the doctor and if a girl acts like shes about to do this again knock her on her ***!
2006-11-17 23:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by Kari 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
That's horrible I would NEVER kick a dude in the nuts for fun.The only time I would kick a dude in the nuts if he attacked me .Other then that I would never.I think you should talk to the Principal .It depends were you acting in way to provoke the kicking of the nuts?.If you were minding your own business and the just kick you for fun then go to the Principal.Or tell people that the girl who kick you in the nuts kicked you because she's jealous because she wants nuts.Joking, just avoid that girl who kicked the family jewels.
2006-11-18 20:19:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the girls if they ever kick you there again you'll shove a baseball bat so far up their vag they'll never be able to have kids. Oh and it probably would help if you grabbed their foot when they went to kick you, with a quick flick of the wrist twist the ankle slightly to cause a minor amount of pain, that will get the point across, if not feel free to cause as much pain to the ankle as you'd like because if you do get in trouble, they F'in started it. But whatever you do, dont hit them.
2006-11-17 23:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
First off, ur mom should NOT have reacted like that. If u were my son, I would have called the school and reported those girls. If it still hurts u should seek medical attention. Hernias can happen at any time in ur life, and u do not want that. Please seek medical attention asap. I hope everything goes ok.
2006-11-17 23:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by waddly_penguinly 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go to the principal and tell him/her that you were kicked in the private part by that girl this is serious.
2006-11-18 09:21:08 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Natasha♥ 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋