Ladies: Once and for all (the truth please) Does size (length and/orwidth) matter? Elaborate if need be.?

Question

And if size is importatant - what can be done (short of surgery) to compensate?

Answer 1

The truth (once and for all): it does not matter! Oh, at the extremes maybe - less than 2" or really huge. But anything remotely normal is fine with us. We may pretend to admire your large equipment because we know how pathetically important it is to your fragile male ego, but for ourselves, nope, not at all. As a matter of fact we get extremely bored hearing about it. We're more interested in the quality of what's between your ears than in the size of what's between your legs. Really!

Please find some other interest in life - big penises are not an interesting topic of conversation to those of us who don't have them. This question gets asked a lot, and the males always butt in and say, oh, yeah, it's totally important. Well, wake up guys - just because it's important to you does not make it important to us! If it's 3.8" or 8.3" - who cares? Not the women.

Answer 2

Most women seem to enjoy length more than girth. There are excersizes one can do to increase the size of the penis, but this takes a long time to show major results.

I've also read in a medical book something about how a woman's vagina will actually somewhat adapt to the size of her mate's penis. So, if you're with the same woman for a while, you should be fine.

On another note, if your penis isn't incredibly small, you shouldn't worry about the size. More women can orgasm through oral sex than through penetration. If you excel at foreplay, everything else is much easier.

Answer 3

The truth is that size DOES NOT matter. It's what the guy does with it that's important. Now if there's "nothing" there, then maybe he's really a female in disguise. If he's too huge, he just needs to be careful and tender as to not make his partner uncomfortable. Enjoy making love and not so concentrated on whether your not the right size.

Answer 4

Width is definitely more important than length cos if it's too long it can actually hurt your stomach. You can get pills that the porn stars use called "extentendz" or you can use a penis pump to make it bigger. No matter what anyone tells you size does matter. You have to be able to bump and grind with it right? But if you are smaller use your tongue to compensate

Answer 5

Actually size is not the most important thing. If the size is lacking, but the skill is expert it compensates. However, I would prefer average and skilled over large and clueless anyday. If the foreplay is mind blowing and the technique is awesome, size will be of little importance. Relax mature women know the value of skill and foreplay. Younger girls who are still learning and coming into their sexuality normally prefer size but all they are doing is humping...

Answer 6

Women only have something like 2 inches of feeling in there. You just really have to be comfortable with yourself and relax. Size isn't really important. Once too big, it can actually start to hurt. Average is 2-4 non erect. And 5-7 erect. Other stimulation is also good...try working on that!

Answer 7

You will never find an objective answer. The answer to your question is completely subjective, however, most women prefer something large(At least 8 inches). If you dont have at least an 8 inch D, or alot of thickness(over 6.5 but thick), women will continue to desire something larger. These civilized beasts we call women are much pickier than any other form of life on this planet.
Most women want it large, but it is true that some women prefer something average, and some even have a fetish for small D's. The whole "not size of boat, but its the motion in the ocean" thing usually will come with experience, and some girls will just say that size doesnt matter just to make the male feel better.
Then there are the "size does matter" females. Some fo these women mean this in completely different ways. Some females stand by this concept and mean, when they say this, that they are only sexually attracted to a large penis, and that the bigger, the better. Other women that say size doesnt matter, are really referring to a man with a smaller penis. Basically these types of females are claiming that if you have a small penis by their standards, it DOES matter.
Older females tend to care alot LESS about a guys size, but it still varies. Young females want to experiment with a real big penis, trust me. They all do. Some never get over this, some do. Older women that have been in and out of relationships and marriages with variations of men are what they call "sexually matured". And they hit that age around 30-40. The age when the female is sexually matured, is when the female will hit her sexual PEAK as well. This means that if you find a really hot girl in her early thirties, you might be in luck regardless of your penis size.
So does size matter? To most females it does, but there is a rare group that will just take whatever they can get. The females that honestly dont care about size are most likely not so attractive and will just take whatever penis they can get their hands on, whether it is 2 inches or what not.

Answer 8

Well I am answering only for myself, to me the answer would be no. A woman needs more than just a penis, I know I perfer my man to use his tongue! Most women if they are honest would tell u we need clitorial stimulation, oh nothing as good, best orgasm there is, having a man who knows what to do with a womans clit, believe me after that he can have any size penis! So dont worry just be real good with your fingers, tongue and hell toys! If your lady wants more fun!

Answer 9

Too me length isn`t the project. Its how the guy makes use of it. i like men ordinary(6-7 inches) with some thickness. of direction if a guy is small in that area,he can a minimum of do different thigns to convey his g/f to orgasim,which incorporate,oral intercourse,good long foreplay,each woman i understand all own a vibrator of a few sort,attempt using that together with her.i like it whilst a guy I actual have makes use of my toy to get me off.(wink) Take care

Answer 10

it matters. but not very much at all! definitely not enough to worry about it, or stress over it. it's all about how you use it and how you can connect with the woman. i guess for just a straight "f*ck" the size might be more important, but for making love with someone you care about it really isn't that big of a deal. no pun intended!